When it comes to anime, I have a limited focus and this is mainly because I grew up where was only 3 TV channels but I did spend 5th grade in Los Angeles and when it came to TV I was like a kid, with a pocketful of money, turned loose in a candy store.
1) Gigantor-even as a kid it didn't escape my notice that the bad guy was always an American scientist with a German accent.
2) Speed Racer-this TV series checked so many of my boxes.
3) Kimba the White Lion-It truly pissed me off when Disney completely ripped off this TV series and tried to pass it off as original work. Puh-leez.
4) Star Blazers-I watched this series, start to end, when I was in the military, stationed in California. I truly enjoyed it.
Note:
1) My mom saw Princess Mononoke and raved about it, but she had not watched the anime that I had and she didn't know that in anime a lot of artwork is recycled as is the type of characters, so she was disappointed that I didn't go see it.
2) I watched "Your Name" but only because so many people thought Your Name was the greatest thing ever. I was underwhelmed. I'm not against the film, but also I don't think it's the greatest thing ever.
Your Name was good, but there are other amazing tear jerkers. One I remember was about a boy who bullied a deaf girl, regrets it and tries to help her. and another was about a diver, who saves a wheelchair bound girl, gets hired as her caretaker, and ends up losing his dream to dive in Mexico, because he was severely injured saving her from a traffic accident.
My earliest anime, me and gf at the time loved to watch:
Escaflowne - It was like a bowl of mixed snacks for both of us to enjoy. Giant robot fights and a love story blended nicely.
Patlabor - because hot anime girls and young testosterone.
Agent Aika - My first naughty, heavy ecchi secret from my parents. I had scored the movie/episodes on VHS because I beat an asshole at the game store in Magic, because he talked a whole lot of shit and could not back it up.
I had the complete manga series "Vanity Angels" well because porn.
GF tolerated sailor moon, only because it had fight scenes, but it was too girly for her at the time.
We worked our asses off to buy both the American version and the subbed Japanese version of Robotech/Super Dimensional Fortress Macross. The movie "Do You Remember Love?" was the movie that tugged my teen heartstrings.
Most of the anime on toonami at the time, other than Outlaw Star and Cowboy Beebop was kind of trash, because honestly, how many times do I need to watch the rinse and repeat cycle of Goku?
Also the old game store was kind of sleezy, as long as you did not rat them out, they would sell the adult stuff to anyone with cash, so most shows, like City Hunter, and Bubblegum Crisis had to be bought episodes at a time, usually 2 per vhs. But the owner would some how manage to pick out the choices morsels for secret sleepover viewings.
The best anime movie to me will always be Akira, second is any of the Bleach movies.
As I stated before, it is clear cut as to who which anime or manga is targeted for. Not uncommon for adults to read manga on the train to work, as long as it is not openly smut. Like adult real life stories, with some spice tossed in, like the secret romance of an office lady and her unmarried boss, or the old man assassin is seeking revenge for his daughters murder. Finding something to tickle your fancy is not hard, I have several sites where you can freely read translated mange, with genres and such. Right now I am enjoying re-reading a manga series I had the entire series until I lost the collection in paperback.
Dance till Tomorrow
Imagine your grandfather dying, and leaving you a stamp collection worth millions, but there is a catch to inherit it. You have to graduate college, settle down and get married. After the wake you wake up hungover, and there is a strange girl wrapped in a bath towel on your couch, her hair in a towel turbine and shes drinking your beer.
Basically its a story about seeking love, suspicion and finding out what you truly want as an adult.
Also, sex, and a humorous sex scene where he is looking at the unopened condom and notices a hole clean through it, but he freaks out, and she just says get another condom, as she's holding a strip of normal, undamaged ones.
But I mean remove the cartoonish aspects and its just stories being told.
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