a term that refers to the vicarious thrill of showing your wife et al.. off to others naked, especially when she doesn't know.. another form is voyeruism, altho you can probably say they are two sides of the same coin with your wife in the middle. apparently candaulism has been around for centuries. absolutely My downfall..showing her off, in photo, on the net, and even in person if its done surrepticiously....for me its far hotter if they actually KNOW her..then we essentially share that intimate knowledge of her body..anyone else?
I am very much an exhibitionist and voyeur, from a fantasy standpoint this so awesome. Reality this can be a disaster.
A woman I know, who for a time did the hot wife thing with her now ex husband found out her husband has posted photos of her. She wanted to find out how much he had distributed. He had shared pics with me previously, which was not a surprised as I had been with her a few times. I took a few of those photos and through those I found over 30 unique photos that went from risqué to explict. A few were found on hundreds of sites. They all featured her face. One had been photoshopped to include a penis and was shared on shemale sites. Again all without her knowledge and feature her face. She is in a public job and is terrified now someone will find them.
Granted I used forensic tools, but these are all on public sites and forums. No matter how much it turns you on, very real world consequences of sharing. And for the love of God never includ your face!
Fenderwise ,
thankyou SO much for saying this.
It is exactly why there are no pictures of me.
I am of the pre internet era ,so photos were tricky anyway [developing by a third party] but when digital cameras came on the scene my hubby and I insisted that no pics were ever taken of us . All of our "fun" was to be just "in the moment" ; we had lots of fun!!
Friends thought we were paranoid but sadly more than one of them are now exactly in the same situation as you have described.
With the advent of the smartphone it is difficult to avoid photos these days and I don't know where that's going to end.
I am sure that there are pics of me . We, and our family ,spend our summers at a nudist beach, and there is always some pr**k taking phone pics without permission. I look at nudist websites and know that one day there I will be [or worse the grandkids]........it is disconcerting.
Once a pic is out there it can be anywhere , adjusted or not ,it doesn't matter the consequences can be terrible. Why don't people get this ??
Nicky x