Ask a female a question.

[Clitical Thinking]

Lol. Pull my hair slap my ass and call me your barista!

You bring the sugar, I'll bring the cream 

Sorry 

[Pornhubby]

Have you ever squirted anything other than water and urine?

Since our resident Squirtologist, Gina Marie, is not here, let me assure you that female ejaculation is real, and it is neither water nor urine. I have caused several lovers to squirt through the years, and have felt and tasted it. It is very exciting.

https://www.getfrank.co.nz/dating-romance-relationships/sex/myth-buster-female-ejaculation

[B.anders]

Have you ever pegged a guy? Would you? Do you do anal?

[Sarah_1964]

Have you ever pegged a guy? Would you? Do you do anal?

That's three questions, not 'a' question :-)

No, no, yes

[Writers Bloque]

I do not know if its been asked but this is based off of some weird observations and discussions with my male friends:

A:) How is hierarchy established in a group of women? I noticed with my wife and her friends that there is always that one woman the group defers to in a conversation.
 
   To be juvenile: Is it based on the breast size? like "she with the biggest rack is Alpha that day?"
 
   or is it "She who is older is the leader?"

  or even "She who can kick our collective asses is Queen?"

Because sometimes its my wife who seems to be leader of the pack, and other times its the big busted lady, and a few times its been the jaded woman who calls the shots in the group. It is confusing to me, not to be derogatory or sexist. Please do not sic the Sisterhood on me, I am a poor humble man.

[MissBarbara]

I do not know if its been asked but this is based off of some weird observations and discussions with my male friends:

A:) How is hierarchy established in a group of women? I noticed with my wife and her friends that there is always that one woman the group defers to in a conversation.
 
   To be juvenile: Is it based on the breast size? like "she with the biggest rack is Alpha that day?"
 
   or is it "She who is older is the leader?"

  or even "She who can kick our collective asses is Queen?"

Because sometimes its my wife who seems to be leader of the pack, and other times its the big busted lady, and a few times its been the jaded woman who calls the shots in the group. It is confusing to me, not to be derogatory or sexist. Please do not sic the Sisterhood on me, I am a poor humble man.

I think the best way to answer this question is to ask yourself: How is hierarchy established in a group of men? Is it the one with the biggest cock? Is it the physically biggest guy, the guy who could kick everyone else's asses? Is there always an alpha male? What makes him the alpha male, his size or his personality?

With women, it's typically personality -- and not necessarily the dominant personality.

In the two main groups of women I get together with, M is the clear leader of the first group. She's very pretty, and very well endowed, but that has nothing to do with it. She's a natural leader and a take-charge person, and others naturally gravitate toward her. In the other group (which sometimes overlaps with the first group, C is the leader. She's nothing like M. She's extremely sweet and compassionate, and she's very funny (and she's also relatively flat-chested). People are attracted to her compassion and her sense of humor.

[Shiela_M]

With women, it's typically personality -- and not necessarily the dominant personality.

Agreed. When I get with my closest friends, Amanda is the clear "leader". She is by far the most outgoing of us, and she just has the confidence about her that makes you want to just agree and trust her decision. Not say we follow her blindly, but she just has that air about her that makes you want to.  Extraordinarily charismatic.

[Sarah_1964]

How is hierarchy established in a group of women?

I don't know, but I know it's never me :-)

[Writers Bloque]

How is hierarchy established in a group of women?

I don't know, but I know it's never me :-)

I nominate Sarah as leader of the nice group of upstanding and fine ladies of KB for today.

Also, Miss. B, you are a lit buff, what is a woman called who loves dangerous things?

My wife for christmas got me the first volume of the Manga "The Duke of Death and His Maid." (Its saucy, but doesn't cross the line into porn.) The boy was cursed by a witch to kill every living thing he touches, but the maid, who obviously loves him no matter what, flirts hard with him, getting close to him, showing him her fishnets (think victorian morals about legs.) and her cleavage. But I do not know what kind of character she is, I think there is a name for it, but its lost on me. Also I like her uniform, a departure from the classic english and french style.



I think she might know something, or has an ace up her poofy sleeve. But I hope they do get together. How salacious, a duke and his servant -squee! (j/k) New fact about me: I love romance novels, if they are good, and not just some trope falls in love with a beefcake trope.

[NaughtyGeordie]

I think as far as female orgasms go, you will be encouraged if you are providing pleasure or the right stimulus. If not verbally, her body's movements will soon let you know

[NaughtyGeordie]

I think as far as female orgasms go, you will be encouraged if you are providing pleasure or the right stimulus. If not verbally, her body's movements will soon let you know

[Writers Bloque]

I found a funny Hentai to watch with the wife last night on our rare night off together. But despite it being a cartoon, there is some real life stuff mixed in. It reminded me and the wife of a fight my cousin had with his now wife, but at the time they just started dating.

Hentai:

Dude brings an old high school classmate home cause she broke up with her boyfriend, and had no place to sleep. She stays at his apartment, but quickly gets bent that he does not want to try having sex with her, and they argue until she learns he was holding back because he thinks sex should be done with people you love.

My Cousin:

Just started dating a girl when he was in college, the co ed dorm loses power and water during the winter and me being the closest, hits me up for a room in my house. We hadnt lived in the house we are in now less than a year. He brings her over, with some luggage, and I give them an unused room (this was before my last daughter was old enough to leave the nursery.) And the fight broke out that he wouldn't touch her, and he was arguing that he actually loves her and thinks that in the middle of a crisis isn't the best time to fuck. They had not even reached the third dates so... They ended up doing it out of rage, anger and spite. They now have 5 kids and are very happily married, lol.

My question for the Upperclass Ladies of KB:

Is this really a thing among women? I mean I know some guys will do anything to get a lady in bed, but in this generation of #metoo, and cancel culture, Men have to be careful. But to a woman does actually crashing at a man's place equate to consent, or at least implied consent? Or is it just a libido thing? I am confused.

[MissBarbara]

I found a funny Hentai to watch with the wife last night on our rare night off together. But despite it being a cartoon, there is some real life stuff mixed in. It reminded me and the wife of a fight my cousin had with his now wife, but at the time they just started dating.

Hentai:

Dude brings an old high school classmate home cause she broke up with her boyfriend, and had no place to sleep. She stays at his apartment, but quickly gets bent that he does not want to try having sex with her, and they argue until she learns he was holding back because he thinks sex should be done with people you love.

My Cousin:

Just started dating a girl when he was in college, the co ed dorm loses power and water during the winter and me being the closest, hits me up for a room in my house. We hadnt lived in the house we are in now less than a year. He brings her over, with some luggage, and I give them an unused room (this was before my last daughter was old enough to leave the nursery.) And the fight broke out that he wouldn't touch her, and he was arguing that he actually loves her and thinks that in the middle of a crisis isn't the best time to fuck. They had not even reached the third dates so... They ended up doing it out of rage, anger and spite. They now have 5 kids and are very happily married, lol.

My question for the Upperclass Ladies of KB:

Is this really a thing among women? I mean I know some guys will do anything to get a lady in bed, but in this generation of #metoo, and cancel culture, Men have to be careful. But to a woman does actually crashing at a man's place equate to consent, or at least implied consent? Or is it just a libido thing? I am confused.

I am definitely not "upper class." I grew up with three siblings, and my dad was a lower-level accountant and my mom was a teacher. They owned a house in the suburbs, had a car, and helped put four kids through college, but we grew up on a fairly tight budget. And I live pretty much the same way today. I live in a small apartment, and I only have one clothing item that cost more than $200 (and only one pair of shoes that cost more than $150, and they're running shoes).

Meanwhile, all of this has absolutely nothing to do with the #MeToo movement or "cancel culture."  To be honest, I'm not even sure what "cancel culture" means in this context.

Consent means consent, that is, a free agreement to engage in the act that is about to occur. Walking in the front door of someone's home, or staying over at someone's home, is not consent, nor even implied consent. As Toe can explain, "implied consent," is a legal term. It applies, for example, when a person drives a car down the street, and is stopped by a police officer for potential drunk driving. The fact that the person was driving a car is considered implied consent to a breathalyzer test. To take another example, if a customer takes a seat in a restaurant and orders a meal, it is implied consent that owner is obligated to provide the food, and the customer is obligated to pay for it.

Implied consent can occur in a sexual relationship. For example, a husband and wife are lying in bed, he begins stroking her body, and she turns to him and eagerly kisses him, and strokes him, etc. It is implied, without words being exchanged, that she consents to the act which is beginning.

This doesn't mean that a woman crashing at a man's place cannot consent to have sex with him. Yes, libido is very much a thing, and contrary to popular belief, women can get just as horny and yearn for sex as much as men. But it still requires consent on her part, with nothing implicit or assumed.

I hope that clears things up for you.

[Writers Bloque]

I found a funny Hentai to watch with the wife last night on our rare night off together. But despite it being a cartoon, there is some real life stuff mixed in. It reminded me and the wife of a fight my cousin had with his now wife, but at the time they just started dating.

Hentai:

Dude brings an old high school classmate home cause she broke up with her boyfriend, and had no place to sleep. She stays at his apartment, but quickly gets bent that he does not want to try having sex with her, and they argue until she learns he was holding back because he thinks sex should be done with people you love.

My Cousin:

Just started dating a girl when he was in college, the co ed dorm loses power and water during the winter and me being the closest, hits me up for a room in my house. We hadnt lived in the house we are in now less than a year. He brings her over, with some luggage, and I give them an unused room (this was before my last daughter was old enough to leave the nursery.) And the fight broke out that he wouldn't touch her, and he was arguing that he actually loves her and thinks that in the middle of a crisis isn't the best time to fuck. They had not even reached the third dates so... They ended up doing it out of rage, anger and spite. They now have 5 kids and are very happily married, lol.

My question for the Upperclass Ladies of KB:

Is this really a thing among women? I mean I know some guys will do anything to get a lady in bed, but in this generation of #metoo, and cancel culture, Men have to be careful. But to a woman does actually crashing at a man's place equate to consent, or at least implied consent? Or is it just a libido thing? I am confused.

I am definitely not "upper class." I grew up with three siblings, and my dad was a lower-level accountant and my mom was a teacher. They owned a house in the suburbs, had a car, and helped put four kids through college, but we grew up on a fairly tight budget. And I live pretty much the same way today. I live in a small apartment, and I only have one clothing item that cost more than $200 (and only one pair of shoes that cost more than $150, and they're running shoes).

Meanwhile, all of this has absolutely nothing to do with the #MeToo movement or "cancel culture."  To be honest, I'm not even sure what "cancel culture" means in this context.

Consent means consent, that is, a free agreement to engage in the act that is about to occur. Walking in the front door of someone's home, or staying over at someone's home, is not consent, nor even implied consent. As Toe can explain, "implied consent," is a legal term. It applies, for example, when a person drives a car down the street, and is stopped by a police officer for potential drunk driving. The fact that the person was driving a car is considered implied consent to a breathalyzer test. To take another example, if a customer takes a seat in a restaurant and orders a meal, it is implied consent that owner is obligated to provide the food, and the customer is obligated to pay for it.

Implied consent can occur in a sexual relationship. For example, a husband and wife are lying in bed, he begins stroking her body, and she turns to him and eagerly kisses him, and strokes him, etc. It is implied, without words being exchanged, that she consents to the act which is beginning.

This doesn't mean that a woman crashing at a man's place cannot consent to have sex with him. Yes, libido is very much a thing, and contrary to popular belief, women can get just as horny and yearn for sex as much as men. But it still requires consent on her part, with nothing implicit or assumed.

I hope that clears things up for you.

I call bull on you not being upperclass. But not in the traditional meaning of upperclass, but my meaning, being a woman of high caliber, nice, polite, not garish. I was implying by upperclass, is that the lady's of KB are great women. Thanks for the clarity. But is it a thing with women, putting consent aside, to get mad at a man for not wanting to put out when things are falling into place for it?

In the Hentai the lady was like "I am a pretty woman here in your house crashing the night, why wont you make a move on me? she accuses him of impotency, which is kind of a nuclear button for men, and then she gets what she wants but more than she expected.

The hentai in question:

Mitasarete Mezameru Asa ni, Jimi na Choushoku o The Animation

Basically, do women get frustrated over things like that?

[Pornhubby]

Lawyer’s comments: Consent is an agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent should be clearly and freely communicated. A verbal and affirmative expression of consent can help both parties to understand and respect each other’s boundaries.

Consent cannot be given by individuals who are underage, intoxicated or incapacitated by drugs or alcohol, or asleep or unconscious. If someone agrees to an activity under pressure of intimidation or threat, that isn’t considered consent, because it was not given freely. Unequal power dynamics, such as engaging in sexual activity with an employee or student, also mean that consent cannot be freely given.

[Shiela_M]

I'm not sure about the cancel culture thing either, but my mind goes to those gym incidents where women attack men for looking at them even though they show up in skimpy skintight clothes and do squats with their ass sticking out in the middle of the gym.

What I'm getting from this is a complete double standard as well. A guy approaches and starts flirting, if she's not interested she'll turn him down and thats too bad for him, but if she approaches a guy, and he turns her down, he's an unbelievable asshole, he's stupid, and that is just rude. How dare he!

Just because they are in the same building or room, doesn't mean he's free to make whatever move he wants to and vise versa. There needed to be better communication, and understanding on both parties. If he wants to wait or he doesn't feel right about it, she needs to swallow her pride accept that, just like men do. Some of us have become too arrogant and feel we are better than we actually are.

To elaborate just a little more on the drunk driving example MissB used, there needs to be a reason to suspect drunk driving. There needs to be more signs than just a person driving. Swerving, slow driving, fast driving, etc. These all communicate a possible drunk driver, and therefore implied consent to being pulled over and given a breathalyzer. If they are just driving, and doing nothing wrong, it would be illegal for the officer to pull the person over.

There needs to be more than just staying over that says she's interested. I slept at my friends Shannon's home last weekend. If her husband suddenly came into the living room and started trying to have sex with me on the couch, regardless of how good looking he is, I'd have been mortified. Just sleeping there wasn't implied consent for him to try.

[Dirtymind]

"I am a pretty woman here in your house crashing the night, why wont you make a move on me?

If that it's what a woman wants, and doesn't get, the answer is simple. We're morons. We don't see hints.

My ex flirted with me. Nothing. She flirted more aggresively. I missed that.

Finally, she sent me a text saying, "I've shaved my pussy. Are you coming?". And frankly I still wasn't sure 

[Potnoodles]

I don't think that crashing at a guy's place is an automatic come on for sex.[although it is a wonderful opportunity]
 I don't see why the girl should've got upset because he didn't make a move on her. If she had wanted sex then she should have left the sofa and climbed into his bed . Don't ask me how I know ,lol.

An interesting point was raised by MissBarbara  - girls are just as horny and sometimes yearn for sex as much as guys-  This is SO true and some men do not understand this or believe it [ despite our very best efforts] . Maybe the hentai film producer was trying in a weird way to say this .ie that girls are just as if not more so horny than guys and that's why she gets mad at the " whimp" Clumsy though.

Nicky x [ I don'tgive a f**k cos today I got a quad ,yey]

[MissBarbara]

I found a funny Hentai to watch with the wife last night on our rare night off together. But despite it being a cartoon, there is some real life stuff mixed in. It reminded me and the wife of a fight my cousin had with his now wife, but at the time they just started dating.

Hentai:

Dude brings an old high school classmate home cause she broke up with her boyfriend, and had no place to sleep. She stays at his apartment, but quickly gets bent that he does not want to try having sex with her, and they argue until she learns he was holding back because he thinks sex should be done with people you love.

My Cousin:

Just started dating a girl when he was in college, the co ed dorm loses power and water during the winter and me being the closest, hits me up for a room in my house. We hadnt lived in the house we are in now less than a year. He brings her over, with some luggage, and I give them an unused room (this was before my last daughter was old enough to leave the nursery.) And the fight broke out that he wouldn't touch her, and he was arguing that he actually loves her and thinks that in the middle of a crisis isn't the best time to fuck. They had not even reached the third dates so... They ended up doing it out of rage, anger and spite. They now have 5 kids and are very happily married, lol.

My question for the Upperclass Ladies of KB:

Is this really a thing among women? I mean I know some guys will do anything to get a lady in bed, but in this generation of #metoo, and cancel culture, Men have to be careful. But to a woman does actually crashing at a man's place equate to consent, or at least implied consent? Or is it just a libido thing? I am confused.

I am definitely not "upper class." I grew up with three siblings, and my dad was a lower-level accountant and my mom was a teacher. They owned a house in the suburbs, had a car, and helped put four kids through college, but we grew up on a fairly tight budget. And I live pretty much the same way today. I live in a small apartment, and I only have one clothing item that cost more than $200 (and only one pair of shoes that cost more than $150, and they're running shoes).

Meanwhile, all of this has absolutely nothing to do with the #MeToo movement or "cancel culture."  To be honest, I'm not even sure what "cancel culture" means in this context.

Consent means consent, that is, a free agreement to engage in the act that is about to occur. Walking in the front door of someone's home, or staying over at someone's home, is not consent, nor even implied consent. As Toe can explain, "implied consent," is a legal term. It applies, for example, when a person drives a car down the street, and is stopped by a police officer for potential drunk driving. The fact that the person was driving a car is considered implied consent to a breathalyzer test. To take another example, if a customer takes a seat in a restaurant and orders a meal, it is implied consent that owner is obligated to provide the food, and the customer is obligated to pay for it.

Implied consent can occur in a sexual relationship. For example, a husband and wife are lying in bed, he begins stroking her body, and she turns to him and eagerly kisses him, and strokes him, etc. It is implied, without words being exchanged, that she consents to the act which is beginning.

This doesn't mean that a woman crashing at a man's place cannot consent to have sex with him. Yes, libido is very much a thing, and contrary to popular belief, women can get just as horny and yearn for sex as much as men. But it still requires consent on her part, with nothing implicit or assumed.

I hope that clears things up for you.

I call bull on you not being upperclass. But not in the traditional meaning of upperclass, but my meaning, being a woman of high caliber, nice, polite, not garish. I was implying by upperclass, is that the lady's of KB are great women. Thanks for the clarity. But is it a thing with women, putting consent aside, to get mad at a man for not wanting to put out when things are falling into place for it?

In the Hentai the lady was like "I am a pretty woman here in your house crashing the night, why wont you make a move on me? she accuses him of impotency, which is kind of a nuclear button for men, and then she gets what she wants but more than she expected.

The hentai in question:

Mitasarete Mezameru Asa ni, Jimi na Choushoku o The Animation

Basically, do women get frustrated over things like that?

Perhaps "classy" would be a better word than "upper class." To my mind "upper class" defines someone who is at least relatively wealthy. Either way, I'm thankful for your compliments.

You write, "Is it a thing with women, putting consent aside, to get mad at a man for not wanting to put out when things are falling into place for it?"

If you're asking whether women get frustrated when they're ready to go and their partner is not, then the answer is undoubtedly yes. Both Shiela and Julie have described this exact thing, and several times.

The question whether two people in the situation you describe -- e.g. a house guest or visitor who is a relative stranger to the homeowner -- would have sex, the answer is more complex. In fantasies, they almost always do. In real life, it entirely depends on the people involved. You described a man not wanting to do so because he isn't in love with or in a committed relationship with the woman. I respect that, and it's entirely his choice. But is he sees a hot woman who's ready to go sitting across from him in the living room and decides to engage with her, I respect that as well, and it's also entirely his choice.

I would suspect that the times when a man is ready to go and the woman is not vs. a woman is ready to go and a man is not fall somewhere around a 10:1 ratio, and perhaps even higher. While this is generalizing, women get just as horny and crave sex as much as men, but women are more selective in their choices of when and how frequently to have sex. Again, this is just my impression, but it seems that most men are ready to go 2-3 times per day, every day, and more often on weekends. Most women, in general, are not.

[Potnoodles]

" Most women, in general, are not "

Dammit , in the minority ,again !

Nicky x