Ask a female a question.

[Killer Moth]

Every female likes different things.

Yes, and this thread only makes sense if we're taking the attitude that we're asking specific women for their specific opinions.

[MissBarbara]

Every female likes different things.

Yes, and this thread only makes sense if we're taking the attitude that we're asking specific women for their specific opinions.

I agree.

However, please be careful not to generalize from the answers of a small group of women here to all women in general.

And do keep in mind that most of the women you'll meet here are pervs and weirdos, pretty much by definition...

[KitKat]

...do keep in mind that most of the women you'll meet here are pervs and weirdos, pretty much by definition...

So true. 

[Jed_]

 

[staci]

I can do a better job when they don't. They can abuse their fleshlight  if they need.

[Killer Moth]

In your experience, is there a functional (as opposed to aesthetic) difference between circumcised and uncircumcised penises?

[MintJulie]

In your experience, is there a functional (as opposed to aesthetic) difference between circumcised and uncircumcised penises?

I can't answer because I've never been with a guy that was uncircumcised.   My best guess would be to say 'no' though.  Women have different levels of sensitivity, so maybe some can and possibly take enjoyment from it.  Up until I was 30 I could ever so slightly feel if the base of the head was much bigger than the diameter of the shaft, but there was no additional pleasure given from it.

[MissBarbara]

In your experience, is there a functional (as opposed to aesthetic) difference between circumcised and uncircumcised penises?

I can't find it right now, but there's a thread here that discusses this in detail, with many good thoughts and opinions.

[mnfredmd]

If you’ve ever watched “The Masters of Sex’ on TV based on the Masters and Johnson studies from the ‘60ies,  you may have noticed that all the guys on there seem to use the same technique for vaginal penetration (the director thinks it's hot, I guess). Once they are in, they withdraw very slowly and then really ram it back in (repeat as often as desired). What do you ladies think of this technique? Too rough? Distracting? Just right? Wife doesn’t want to commit to an answer, maybe someone on here can help?

[MintJulie]

If you’ve ever watched “The Masters of Sex’ on TV based on the Masters and Johnson studies from the ‘60ies,  you may have noticed that all the guys on there seem to use the same technique for vaginal penetration (the director thinks it's hot, I guess). Once they are in, they withdraw very slowly and then really ram it back in (repeat as often as desired). What do you ladies think of this technique? Too rough? Distracting? Just right? Wife doesn’t want to commit to an answer, maybe someone on here can help?

I really can't speak on the show because I've never watched it.   But, as you say, it must have something to do with the director directing because not all guys are alike, just as not all women are alike.  So it's sort of odd they would all follow the same script during sex scenes.  

Are they trying to portray it in a manner that he's trying to hurt her, or that he's 'ramming it to her' to show the bitch his power?  If I were to watch the show I'd be indifferent to any technique.  Watching or reading porn doesn't do anything for me.  Observing it on the show, I'd likely not even pay that much attention to it.  It's my own thoughts and desires, or my partners that I care about.  

I think any technique would depend on the time, the place, the person, the frame of mind of both individuals.  We all like different things.  But we all also like things switched up a little.  One time I might like it like you described, another not.  I've told my man to change the tempo before.  I might not like it a certain way at that time, but I always say it in a way to make him enjoy it more.  Sometimes I like it faster.  Sometimes slower.  Sometimes deeper.......or harder so that our pelvises slam together.  Sometimes just short little jabs where it might only be a couple of inches.   It all depends.  You have to figure it out as it's happening.

Thanks for the question.   Thanks for participating to KB.

[KitKat]

Nevermind.

[MissBarbara]

When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?

I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?

And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?

[KitKat]

When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?

I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?

And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?

Yes, yes, and yes.

[MintJulie]

When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?

I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?

And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?

When I was younger I could always feel it.  It was usually younger guys, so I think it was more of a stronger ejaculation, or more pressure on his release.  I could always feel there was a warm gooey feeling spreading a bit inside of me.  But that feeling was over with in 10 secondsish as it reached my own body temperature quickly.

With a condom, I could never feel a thing.  I only knew when he had by his facial and bodily actions.

After 25 years of sex, it doesn't feel the same.  I might feel pressure at that moment, but don't feel the warm gooey sensation I mentioned in my earlier days.  My guy also doesn't orgasm with a lot of pressure behind it.  Nor has anyone in the last 10 years or so.  It also might have to do with my senses....seeing his face and his body react along with the noises he's making.....That has most of my attention and I'm not paying any mind to trying to feel him cum inside me.  Or I just blank it out because the feeling isn't that big of a deal.  Plus my own feelings and things going on with my mind and body pretty much overrides that he just made a deposit.    

I'll try and pay closer attention next time and report back to you.  If I remember in the heat of the moment.  

When you ask Is it pleasant or erotic?    
The actual presence of sperm in my vagina, no.
That I made him feel so good that he ejaculated inside me, yes.


Now, if you want to ask about performing oral sex on him, you might get a different answer.

[Army of One]

When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?

I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?

And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?

I now feel kind of bad for not asking, because this question has sat on my curiosity for a long while.

[Colin Piper]

Two questions in one go, indulge me why don'tcha...

You ever:

1. Been tempted to or fantasized about asking a hot guy if you could suck him off, because maybe he was out of your league or in a relationship, but what guy is going to turn down an offer like that?

2. Been in a long-term relationship but would immediately fuck a guy you have the hots for (maybe the partner of a friend?) if he asked you and there was a good chance no one would find out?

Hell, maybe you've even done it.

Obviously this is me fantasizing about yummy mummies I know, in reverse, wondering if they feel the same way...

[Katiebee]

In a word, no. But that is me.

[MintJulie]

Two questions in one go, indulge me why don'tcha...

You ever:

1. Been tempted to or fantasized about asking a hot guy if you could suck him off, because maybe he was out of your league or in a relationship, but what guy is going to turn down an offer like that?

2. Been in a long-term relationship but would immediately fuck a guy you have the hots for (maybe the partner of a friend?) if he asked you and there was a good chance no one would find out?

1-
Been tempted to ask a guy?  No, never.  I've only wanted to perform oral sex with a guy I was in love with.   That's not to say I haven't done it to a guy I wasn't in love with, but not to completion.

2-
Yes.  Mark and I call it our 'list', and if given the opportunity, the other partner would allow it without repercussion. 

My list contains
Tom Brady, Steve Yzerman, Ryan Gosling, Hugh Jackman, Matthew McConaughey

But, no, nobody else.

[Jed_]

And do keep in mind that most of the women you'll meet here are pervs and weirdos, pretty much by definition...

That pretty much sums up why I frequent places like this.

[Jed_]

When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?

I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?

And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?

When I was younger I could always feel it.  It was usually younger guys, so I think it was more of a stronger ejaculation, or more pressure on his release.  I could always feel there was a warm gooey feeling spreading a bit inside of me.  But that feeling was over with in 10 secondsish as it reached my own body temperature quickly.

With a condom, I could never feel a thing.  I only knew when he had by his facial and bodily actions.

After 25 years of sex, it doesn't feel the same.  I might feel pressure at that moment, but don't feel the warm gooey sensation I mentioned in my earlier days.  My guy also doesn't orgasm with a lot of pressure behind it.  Nor has anyone in the last 10 years or so.  It also might have to do with my senses....seeing his face and his body react along with the noises he's making.....That has most of my attention and I'm not paying any mind to trying to feel him cum inside me.  Or I just blank it out because the feeling isn't that big of a deal.  Plus my own feelings and things going on with my mind and body pretty much overrides that he just made a deposit.    

I'll try and pay closer attention next time and report back to you.  If I remember in the heat of the moment.  

When you ask Is it pleasant or erotic?    
The actual presence of sperm in my vagina, no.
That I made him feel so good that he ejaculated inside me, yes.


Now, if you want to ask about performing oral sex on him, you might get a different answer.

I’ve been told she could feel it, so I always assumed girls could most times.  Perhaps now that I’m older, maybe not so much.

In writing stories I frequently write from the girl’s POV.  And on this topic I’d say something like, ‘and then he stiffened on top of me, and I could feel his hateful slimy wetness spreading inside me’.