Ask a female a question.

[MissBarbara]

I just wanted to clarify that none of my comments were directed to any of the regular members of the board. I was just ranting about this particular type of individual who engages in what I deem to be abusive behavior.

And let’s be honest, there’s a lot of 300 pound hairy backed gorillas living in their mother’s basement who show up on boards like this and pretend to be well hung 24-year-olds. I just approach every new member with a healthy level of skepticism.

I understood the intent of your OP, and I agreed with you (and upvoted it). I haven't been here as long as you, but the phenomena you describe are very real and very consistent. There are likely 200 people who have done exactly what you describe during that time, men and women (or "women") alike.

I share your "healthy level of skepticism," and I think all members should be skeptical of new members who explode onto the board as you describe.

[ObiDongKenobi]

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There is this saying, and I think it was even posted here by AO1, purpleshoes, or Obi. "Men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will murder them."

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I haven't checked but I think the quote is originally by Margaret Attwood, author of The Handmaid's Tale.

[Pornhubby]

I haven't checked but I think the quote is originally by Margaret Attwood, author of The Handmaid's Tale.

It is a Margaret Atwood quote. #1697 for Obi.

[Ol Hippie]

OK Ladies, there is a young gal that I see in a social setting with some regularity. I can't help but notice she is frequently bra-less.
So, my question(s)... What goes into making that call, bra or no bra, outside of the home? Do you have a preference? Would you be bothered by extra gazes from the men who may notice?
Just wondering.....

[Shiela_M]

Its just a personal preference for her. Some women just hate bras, and not just the feminist reasosn. Some find the really uncomfortable and sime love going out with them free and clear. I don’t mind wearing a bra, and they are not that uncomfortable for me. Maybe it's the6 just don't bother me, or maybe it's because I never spend less than $65 on them and they fit me really well.

There are two reasons I won't wear a bra going out. One is that I'm just running to the shop real quick and will be back home within a half hour or so. The second is if I'm wearing a dress where it just won't work or look good.  If I'm going out to socialize, I'm going to be in a bra.

[Vela Nanashi]

Bras can be confining and uncomfortable yeah, but sometimes they can reduce discomfort, like for intense exercise or such, but I think that is very individual, also depends on if you can find one that fits your body exactly. Also there is that annoying thing where pretty bras are not usually super comfortable, and the opposite too...

[MissBarbara]

OK Ladies, there is a young gal that I see in a social setting with some regularity. I can't help but notice she is frequently bra-less.
So, my question(s)... What goes into making that call, bra or no bra, outside of the home? Do you have a preference? Would you be bothered by extra gazes from the men who may notice?

Just wondering.....

When I first read this post, I had two reactions:

First, I hope this "young gal" is only comparatively young. Otherwise, it comes off as very creepy.

And second, women do not, contrary to what many men seem to believe, dress solely in order to appeal to or attract men.

The famous line from the Van Morrison song puts it perfectly: "All the girls walk by dressed up for each other."

Then there's the comfort factor. Bras serve as support, coverage, and protection. They can be uncomfortable (and I'll admit that the first thing I do when I get home from work if I'm not going out is take my bra off), but having the girls bouncing around as you're walking isn't comfortable. And having your nipples rub against a course fabric is even less comfortable.

Then, of course, size matters. I more largely endowed woman needs the extra support, and the bounce factor looms even larger.

 

[Pornhubby]

Miss B is making me horny with all of her “largely endowed bouncing girls with nipples rubbing against coarse fabric.”

I don’t care for whom they are dressing. Woo.

 

[MissBarbara]

Miss B is making me horny with all of her “largely endowed bouncing girls with nipples rubbing against coarse fabric.”

I don’t care for whom they are dressing. Woo.

 

I literally laughed out loud at this comment.

Or, as Adrian Monk put it, "I LOL'ed out loud."

[Shiela_M]

Also there is that annoying thing where pretty bras are not usually super comfortable, and the opposite too...

Truth! I sometimes think that this is because it's coming off before the night ends. Sure you may have to deal with some discomfort, but if I'm wearing that, I'm not going to be doing a ton of walking. Ill just be sitting and enjoy one person's company.

I've said it before, If I'm undressing in front of you, and my bra and panties match, it was not your idea we're having sex. You may think it was, but I've been planting and growing that seed from second we said hello.

Those pretty, matching sets are a quick visual to help get that blood pumping to the right area, and then they are coming off.

[Mike3854]

When you discover a guy you are interested in needs viagra or something else to get hard, what's your thought?

I need Viagra. I can get a semi erection without it, but not stiff enough for penetration. Everything just squishes up at her entrance. .
Every woman I've been with the last few years did not realize that I snuck a purple pill prior to our sex.

[Pornhubby]

Anyone over the age of thirty is not going to have a problem with it. It’s fairly common.

Twenty years ago, there used to be some shame associated with ED. Now, as I have aged, everyone jokes about it, or shares stories.

I’m not a female, but I have never had one complain.

[Shiela_M]

👆The man is right.👆

When first starting to encounter it, can't help but feel he doesn't find you attractive. But a little reading and some understanding, you just learn it can be a part of life. So many factors can go into it. Health, stress, other meds...  if Allan started needed the pills I would fully understand, it just something that can happen.

Another thing about those pills, is that they seem to get you guys hard to another level. Impressively hard, and I do like that. Just as long as he isn't trying to break me with it.

I hope your wife know about this, otherwise you may have to brace for a shitstorm if she doesn't.

[Mike3854]

Thank you both. I try to have that mindset but I'm a bit insecure about it at times.  Truly, thank you. 

[MissBarbara]

Toe posted this yesterday:

My first wet dream was about a girl who played French horn in my school’s band. 50 years later, we are still friends on Facebook. Never told her about blowing my load over her.

My first thoughts were "that's disgusting!" and "don't ever tell her!"

Then I realized I was being homosexist. If another woman said something like that to me, would likely be both flattered and turned on.

Which begs the question: If a straight or bi woman was told something like this, would they think "that's disgusting!" or "that's flattering!"?

P.S. I made up the word "homosexist." But I think it works in this context.

[Writers Bloque]

Toe posted this yesterday:

My first wet dream was about a girl who played French horn in my school’s band. 50 years later, we are still friends on Facebook. Never told her about blowing my load over her.

My first thoughts were "that's disgusting!" and "don't ever tell her!"

Then I realized I was being homosexist. If another woman said something like that to me, would likely be both flattered and turned on.

Which begs the question: If a straight or bi woman was told something like this, would they think "that's disgusting!" or "that's flattering!"?

P.S. I made up the word "homosexist." But I think it works in this context.

I do by recognize your wisdom and knowledge more than qualifies you to create a new word.

Homosexist - To act in a sexist manner and or speak in a sexist way to another member of the same sex as yourself.

Good Definition?

[Writers Bloque]

I am in dire need of help from the ladies of KB:

Wife cannot have penetrative sex for up to three weeks, due to the damage to her cervix when she decided to go full bore marathon fucking on me. She is not taking it well. So I have a couple of questions:

1. Would Anal be better, or would it be better not to?

2. Does anyone know any secret technique that would allow me to help scratch her itch without fucking her? Because shes getting pent up in a really bad way.

[Shiela_M]

I really can't answer that for her, because for one, I'm not sure how much she enjoys anal, and for me, regardless of how much I can enjoy it from time to time, it does not compare to regular sex. Even when I'm getting sodomized, I'm still working the growler with fingers.

I've also never had my cervix beaten so bad, I needed a doctor to say no sex. I've had my fair share of big guys leaving me aching and regreting sleeping with them, but never to a medical extent.

I would say just use a vibrator. I'm sure you've got some sort of arsenal to choose from. I'm a woman that LOVES penetration, but an orgasm is an orgasm, if she can get one from clit stimulation, get your face, toys, fingers to work buddy boy!

[Vela Nanashi]

I am not a doctor, so maybe ask her doc about this.

The cervix is deep inside, but the g spot is shallow and the clitoris is outside, both of these might allow orgasm without going fully deep insjde her. I do not know her doctor's specofic and exact instructions.

But you can get her off with mouth and fingers, and she you. I think anal can reach and affect the cervix through the relatively thin wall between vagina and anal tract so I suggest no on that, but ask doc.

[Writers Bloque]

I am not a doctor, so maybe ask her doc about this.

The cervix is deep inside, but the g spot is shallow and the clitoris is outside, both of these might allow orgasm without going fully deep insjde her. I do not know her doctor's specofic and exact instructions.

But you can get her off with mouth and fingers, and she you. I think anal can reach and affect the cervix through the relatively thin wall between vagina and anal tract so I suggest no on that, but ask doc.

I really can't answer that for her, because for one, I'm not sure how much she enjoys anal, and for me, regardless of how much I can enjoy it from time to time, it does not compare to regular sex. Even when I'm getting sodomized, I'm still working the growler with fingers.

I've also never had my cervix beaten so bad, I needed a doctor to say no sex. I've had my fair share of big guys leaving me aching and regreting sleeping with them, but never to a medical extent.

I would say just use a vibrator. I'm sure you've got some sort of arsenal to choose from. I'm a woman that LOVES penetration, but an orgasm is an orgasm, if she can get one from clit stimulation, get your face, toys, fingers to work buddy boy!

What happened...

For a full week shes been assaulting me every night, because of hormones she was Extremely Horny. So I gave her what she wanted, despite leaving me bruised and sore.

Doctors orders were no deep penetration, but that is a problem, because I will admit that I am not good at shallow thrusts. I like the feel of her against me. And also my dick is wide, so they want me not to penetrate, as opening her up might hurt her more. We have toys, and I do like eating her out, but while she gets hers, in her words its like offering a starving person a single ritz cracker with cheese when there is a buffet right there.

I also do not mind not getting off, as I think I fucked her enough for ten lifetimes in the span of a week. I even have not felt the itch to masturbate either. I care deeply about her, but shes going Darling Nikki levels of horny. I also ordered a powerful wireless rotor, maybe I can use it like a non painful shock collar or something.