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MistressWitch · **on:** March 21, 2009, 05:20:39 AM

Ok guys, sitting behind your computers you are completely annonomous so no one knows who you really are, for the most part, so I want you to be brutally honest answering this.

If you could do anything you wanted to a girl and you were guaranteed that you wouldn't get in trouble for doing it, what would you do to her? What would you do to cause her pain? What would you do to cause her pleasure? What if you knew that pain caused her pleasure and her only limits were that nothing could be severed from her body. (after all, if you cut her nipples off they won't be there next time you want to play with them)

Here's why I ask- I'm a huge pain slut- the more pain the better. I've told the partner what I want him to do, giving him some general guidelines all the way to detailed instructions and a list of possible options. He just doesn't get it and he's stuck on the same 5 things over and over. Even in the same order. It's to the point that I know what he's going to do before he does it and it's just horribly borring- so I have made it clear that I'm just not interested in having sex with him most of the time.

I could go into grand detail here what I'm looking for but I want to hear from you- from a male perspective- what would you do to a willing (or not so willing) female that you could just play with and torment for as long as you wanted?

MW

clipclop · **Reply #1 on:** March 21, 2009, 10:56:25 AM

MW,
To answer the question of what would I do? Probably the same 5 things you find so borring! Why? I love an intimate and caring relationship...pain--even requested pain--is outside where I would really be.
Now, I'm sure you'll find someone to meet your needs! And I'm sure we have others in this wonderful website that are more...aggressive than me.

clipclop · **Reply #2 on:** March 21, 2009, 01:22:27 PM

Circ, Good point. I have read that those are the main areas that people who engage in "painful" acts enjoy the most. If you can trust that person to only go so far and stop, then the trust factor--as well as intimacy and ingenuity--are increased.

staci · **Reply #3 on:** March 21, 2009, 03:25:23 PM

Wrong sex, so I can't answer the question. The answer should be one that has, giving you pleasure and relief as the primary objective. Men, in general have a problem doing that using their own gratification as the focal point. Someone that cares for you deeply may be able to meet your criteria and as the old saying goes, "respect you in the morning". Other than that, you might just as well walk thru an unlighted park some evening. Good luck, I await to see what answers you get. Medieval Dom, your input?

watcher1 · **Reply #4 on:** March 21, 2009, 03:59:30 PM

Sorry, MisstressWitch, I cannot equate pain with love, so I wouldn't even have that thought in my mind. But bringing you non-painful pleasure, that is something I would enjoy doing to you. Nice and slow.

hot joe · **Reply #5 on:** March 21, 2009, 04:51:24 PM

Being a man deeply in love with my wife. Being a father of daughters whom I love, adore and protect. I could never imagine myself causing a woman pain for the sake of personal sexual gratification. However, if i were somehow to be convienced that this brought pleasure and gratification to my partner I would be willing to go the limits with her. Having a clear understanding of what those limits are, I would do my best to be creative with how we arrive at those limits, making certain that she is in pure ecstasy all the way there. Wow, this is deep........

seafoodlovr · **Reply #6 on:** March 22, 2009, 04:25:59 AM

My dear Mistress, The story I posted had you in mind. The only limits I my mind are things that cause scars, drawing of blood or the use of needles. My only fear if you will, is that there would be unintended consequences of our play. While you are admittedly a pain player, I would never forgive myself if anything happened to you during our play time together. Loving caring relationship aside,you must also understand that while boring in your eyes, reluctance on the part of your partner is well justified. How many players have died by laughing gas or were strangled just a little too long? Not to sound wimpy but if the line of no return was well defined these things wouldn't happen. Never believe that I can't get you to beg for more without getting near that line. That's what a good imagination is ment for.

RopeFiend · **Reply #7 on:** March 22, 2009, 10:44:39 PM

Sorry, MistressWitch, you're WAAAY out of my traveling area... nice location, though! You're quite likely also way too young for my tastes.

Quoting the doc on CSI: "There's a fine line between pleasure and pain, and who doesn't like to cross it every once in a while..." <after which Grissom gives him a WEIRD look!>

Pleasure and pain are inextricably tied together, but it's also intensely personal how you react to it and how much of it works for you without detracting from the experience, basically crossing the line from sensual play to a beating. I've gone well past my earliest thresholds... you hit a whole different area when you're there. Once the endorphins kick in full-steam, it's like a morphine high. Mixed in with enough sensual stimulation, it's a mind blowing whole-body orgasm.

I don't have any issues with rough play, as you can probably guess from my sig.

I'm willing to explore any levels of sensation that might be interesting, short of permanent scarring or bloodplay. Bruises or welts that last a couple of weeks? NO PROBLEM! The only tough thing is that you have to work into it: *I* can't take you where you want to go in the first session, 'cos I don't know how you react or what your 'tells' are when you've exceeded your desired limits. 'Safe words' are practically useless at that point 'cos language disappears at a lower level (I'm guessing here based on your 'pain slut' description). I'd have to learn your body language, though uncontrolled twitching or random movement or is usually a good sign that it's time to back off or cool down some.

We'd have to buy the toys together; I don't have a fully kitted dungeon, and those are the kinds of things that are fun to shop for as a couple. Various floggers, canes, paddles, tawse, crops, whips (like The Stockroom's page, not singletails), rabbit fur, clamps.... it's ALL good!

Well, p'raps I could stay a BIT longer!

Gina Marie · **Reply #8 on:** March 23, 2009, 12:11:34 AM

Wicked, Naughty, Bad ZOOT!

MistressWitch · **Reply #9 on:** March 23, 2009, 05:36:42 AM

Well everyone, thanks for trying to reply. Though you all missed the point of my question. I do sincerely appreciate the effort and respect to try to answer me.

Ropefiend, how young is too young? You might perhaps be surprised at my age. As if age actually matters- isn't it more how you feel & act as opposed to a number?

MW

RopeFiend · **Reply #10 on:** March 23, 2009, 08:11:58 AM

I recognized what you were hunting for Milady Witch, I merely chose not to play in public.

I'm a verb, not an adjective... REAL play gets me hot. Cyber-sex / roleplay or phone sex leaves me high, dry and frustrated.

I also realize one of the fundamental differences between women and men: men are heavily visual / tactile oriented, and with women that's only half of it, the MENTAL is the other half. The ladies here may be able to get off on a story, but I'd wager that most guys can't... it ain't in our make-up, generally. There's always exceptions, but I'm not one of 'em.

I'm 50, and yeah, age makes a significant difference to me. I'm looking for a friend, partner, lover, confidante, companion, 'old lady', buddy, consort AND play-toy, somewhere within +/- 8 to 10 years, I'm not hunting a 'play partner'. Odds are, I'm old enough to be your daddy... and A FEW of the ladies that have hit me up I could nearly be their grandfather!! While some of the gals here might get off on that situation, I don't: the whole daughter/daddy thing trips ALL sorts of alarm bells inside me.

watcher1 · **Reply #11 on:** March 23, 2009, 09:02:07 PM

Quote from: MistressWitch on March 23, 2009, 05:36:42 AM

Well everyone, thanks for trying to reply. Though you all missed the point of my question. I do sincerely appreciate the effort and respect to try to answer me.

Ropefiend, how young is too young? You might perhaps be surprised at my age. As if age actually matters- isn't it more how you feel & act as opposed to a number?

MW

MW - we didn't miss your point. It is that some of us are not into pain, whether inflicting pain or receiving pain. I am sure there are more then a few members here who could answer your question to your satisfaction. We do thank you for sharing your problem and asking the members of kb for advice.

clipclop · **Reply #12 on:** March 23, 2009, 09:08:35 PM

Watcher, You mention in the photo with the snake that you would like to set up shop on the beach giving bikini waxes...that causes pain...maybe that would work!

watcher1 · **Reply #13 on:** March 23, 2009, 09:13:06 PM

Quote from: clipclop on March 23, 2009, 09:08:35 PM

Watcher, You mention in the photo with the snake that you would like to set up shop on the beach giving bikini waxes...that causes pain...maybe that would work!

I would be gentle... LOL.....If I caused pain, I would just have to kiss the sore spots.

seafoodlovr · **Reply #14 on:** March 24, 2009, 02:09:24 AM

Hey Fiend, whats wrong with daddy /daughter play? When I did hook up with Mistress she acted like a mature 16. Her fake ID said 20? what's the problem?

MistressWitch · **Reply #15 on:** March 24, 2009, 02:17:25 AM

Like, OMG!!! You promised you wouldn't tell anyone! I thought I could trust you. You said you thought of me like a daughter and that you loved me!

I am so totally going to go tell my dad. He's going to be so pissed off. He'll probably call the cops on you. You so deserve what you get! I can't wait until I tell your wife what you did to me.

Bastard!

stefanwolf · **Reply #16 on:** March 24, 2009, 09:54:55 PM

Ok, Im definitely not into extreme painpleasure. I have tried to be the aggressor in sexual play and have failed miserably.
That said. there is a dark side to everyones persona. Something I would never do because the outcome couldnot be guaranteed safe-
forcible rape with objects, repeated degradment, the woman tied, staked out in the woods, the woman screaming and no help around. My first encounter with dirty stories of anykind was in the old Real Detective or Police Stories. They were sensational accounts and in those days very non-mainstream. Unfortuantely the advent of reality news has even taken away from the eroticsm and forbidden nature of those accounts.

Again I would never do anything of this sort but the fantasy is locked away somewhere in my erotic archives,
I hope this comment is taken in the spirit it was offered, an honest answer to a question. If you would like a more detailed account I might be able to put it down into words for private conversation, I dont know.

seafoodlovr · **Reply #17 on:** March 25, 2009, 01:17:22 AM

But Mistress, if my daughter tasted as good as you well........I believe that's the topic of another post by someone else. I will have to remind your daddy that it's you not me that likes the cuffs on tight and digs a good stick up the ass with a billy club. I think my wife will just thank you for letting me molest you and leave her the Hell out of it. See what happens folks? Try to be a nice old pervert to a well deserving young lady!..... Kids these days! D

handsomepeter · **Reply #18 on:** April 06, 2009, 08:54:20 PM

I have thought about this after having a cyber relationship with a painslut for several years.
Ropes would probably be part of the equation. I am talking about ropes that cause someone to be suspended above the floor or even above me. Ropes wrapped tightly around breasts causing them to turn red, then purple with tight flesh there and distended nipples. Spanking the breasts with my hands maybe...maybe with some sort of thin branches from a tree. Spanking of the cunt with my hand though. I would make sure that my middle finger landed right in the split. The pussy would need to be smooth so that the marks would show. Whipping the ass with a belt would be pleasurable to me if it was to you. Leaving marks...perhaps making you kiss the leather before I start to make new patterns. Twisting your nipples...or better yet, hanging weights from them might be enjoyable for you.
All through this, you would be completely able to scream or shout or tell me to stop as long as you know and remember the magic word so that I really will stop.
I have done none of this, but have fantasized, after that relationship, about doing it so the woman has the pleasure she seeks. After...while she is suspended...i would fuck that reddened cunt. That's what I think of anyway.

your ghost · **Reply #19 on:** April 11, 2009, 07:00:35 AM

whats with all this touchy feely thoughtful stuff? mistress, if I had a willing painslut I'd give her what she wanted, pain. I'd either tie her to the bed or hang her by her wrists from the ceiling and then beat her with a belt, then I'd fuck her brains out. and if she complained that things were getting boring I'd put a sock in her mouth and refuse to untie her.

What would you really do??

handsomepeter

your ghost