What RUINED your day today?

[ChirpingGirl]

After spending hours searching KB finding out that there are no naked photos of ChirpingGirl or MintJulie on the site.

Looking for such things is fine (especially when they don’t exist), just don’t ask for such things.  That’s one thing I’ve found out about sites, that girls often get a deluge of requests (and threats) from guys to send them pics, especially nude ones.  It’s tiresome and damn rude.

When I first started here on KB, I got many requests.  I'd say about 8 in a 2 month period.  Since I became a moderator I've had a couple.  Yes it's rude, but I also realize the type of message board I'm participating on, so I don't get upset or offended.  If it happened in real life with someone asking, of course.

The younger generation doesn't seem to have a problem with it.  My niece worked at a Little Caesars pizza when she was 18, she worked the cash register.  Over a 3 month period she had many creepy experiences, but 3 that stood out.  One flat out asked her if she had a nude of her that she would text to him.  Another asked for her Facebook page so he could jack off to her pictures.  And an older man said he'd give her $20 if she would text him a picture of her in her underwear.  When she said no.  He said, "how about in a bikini."   
She said none of them were cool, but she wasn't overly concerned or upset about it.

If you are pestered by another member, whether male or female, please do not hesitate to report that person.   There is a "report to admin" on all of the messages in your inbox.

Nobody should have to deal with it.  Please be respectful to fellow members.

I've had that happen here and I ignored it. You'll never find my Instagram because of vile things strangers said they'd like to do to me and my family. No one in my family has any public Instagrams or facebooks anymore. I've had friends do the same when strangers found pictures of them.

I will not say what people said, just know that it was more than enough to never, ever share personal pictures with non family members and friends ever again.

[MintJulie]

You can also block PMs from members in the settings.

Athos is correct if you didn't realize this.

Go to your profile page.
Under the heading Modify Profile, you will see a option titles Personal Message Options
In the IGNORE LIST text area box, type the member name.  Only one name per line.



Wait a minute, is that why you never answer any of my PM's, Athos?

Kidding.  You can't block moderators or Admins.  Ladies, if IdleBoast or Vinney hassle you, let me know.

[wayne3218]

I've had that happen here and I ignored it. You'll never find my Instagram because of vile things strangers said they'd like to do to me and my family. No one in my family has any public Instagrams or facebooks anymore. I've had friends do the same when strangers found pictures of them.

I’m always surprised at the number of Facebook users who leave their photos open to the public view and not set to private.

[IdleBoast]

I've had to have words with professional people leaving their social media open for viewing by all and sundry on several occasions.  They don't realise how pictures of them drunk with friends can come back and haunt them years later.

(Jules, I'm British - I only hassle ladies in the politest of ways!)

[Jed_]

This is my social media, and there is a pic of me on my profile.

[ChirpingGirl]

My Instagram is pretty boring now anyway. Mostly pictures to keep family up to date. Like the one I just posted of the 6 brushing her cat.

No titty pics or... anything really worth anything to anyone who isn't family. 

[Jed_]

No titty pics or... anything really worth anything to anyone who isn't family. 

That’s a shame, as I’m sure they’re lovely.

[ChirpingGirl]

No titty pics or... anything really worth anything to anyone who isn't family. 

That’s a shame, as I’m sure they’re lovely.

 

My ego says so. 

[Jed_]

No titty pics or... anything really worth anything to anyone who isn't family. 

That’s a shame, as I’m sure they’re lovely.

 

My ego says so. 

I’m sure my eyes and hands would agree with you lol.

[ChirpingGirl]

 

It's a dangerous thing to inflate a dumb blondes ego you know. 

[Jed_]

I’ll risk it 

[ChirpingGirl]

[Jed_]

Why Chirp, you’re just a little flirt aren’t you.

Don’t worry, I won’t tell that authoritative Japanese wifey of yours.

[ChirpingGirl]

Why Chirp, you’re just a little flirt aren’t you.

Don’t worry, I won’t tell that authoritative Japanese wifey of yours.

She's not authoritative. She's a straight up maniacal dictator. 

[Jed_]

I think we’re edging back on topic.

The gf’s ring is too loose on her finger.  So what has ruined my day is dealing with the irrational response that it being sent out for 2 weeks for resizing, as they told me is required, is unacceptable.  I have been getting all sorts of nonsensical suggestions on alternatives.  I have orders to bring receipts and the wedding band with me tomorrow to take it to another jewelry store (at least after my insistence the same chain).  She does not want that rock to leave her finger any longer than possible, and is making me miserable on the topic despite the fuck up on sizing having nothing to do with me.  She should have said during the sizing, ‘That feels loose.’

[ChirpingGirl]

I think we’re edging back on topic.

The gf’s ring is too loose on her finger.  So what has ruined my day is dealing with the irrational response that it being sent out for 2 weeks for resizing, as they told me is required, is unacceptable.  I have been getting all sorts of nonsensical suggestions on alternatives.  I have orders to bring receipts and the wedding band with me tomorrow to take it to another jewelry store (at least after my insistence the same chain).  She does not want that rock to leave her finger any longer than possible, and is making me miserable on the topic despite the fuck up on sizing having nothing to do with me.  She should have said during the sizing, ‘That feels loose.’

The adventure begins. 

[Jed_]

She’s temporarily under the impression she’s the boss.  I have handcuffs and a ballgag that will soon show her otherwise.  I already know she has submissive tendencies during sex.  Plus, I’m getting a little tired of getting clawed and bit as flattering as that is.

[ChirpingGirl]

She’s temporarily under the impression she’s the boss.  I have handcuffs and a ballgag that will soon show her otherwise.  I already know she has submissive tendencies during sex.  Plus, I’m getting a little tired of getting clawed and bit as flattering as that is.

Awwwwww how sweet that you think YOU'RE ever in charge. 

[Jed_]

She’s in charge if it comes to buying curtains and such things I could care less about.  But when I get those feeble ‘no baby, not now’ protests, guess who gets his way?

[ChirpingGirl]

She’s in charge if it comes to buying curtains and such things I could care less about.  But when I get those feeble ‘no baby, not now’ protests, guess who gets his way?