What RUINED your day today?

[Hades]

I’m in the middle of Nowhere, Virginia.
Surprised I have internet tonight. 
I have 19 messages that I will respond to when I get back to civilization. I have 5 pages of unread messages. 

Visited Shenandoah National Park, new River National Park, Manassas, Virginia where the first shots were fired during the Civil War, along with other Civil War sites.  So much history where I’m at.  Love being here and learning.  So many things I’m just now learning. 

Back home appx Sept 10. Might have better internet when we visit Cuyahoga National Park. 

What ruined my day. … No sex in 8 days, and likely the next 8 days.  No more kids joining us on vacation. 

Maybe it's about time you roofied the kids and had a good fuck?  Or, maybe just explain to the kids that every now and then, mom and dad need a good shag?

[Clitical Thinking]

Manassas

Avatar seems appropriate 

Sorry 

[Clitical Thinking]

What ruined my day. … No sex in 8 days, and likely the next 8 days.  No more kids joining us on vacation.

Tell them to go for a long walk and not turn around until you text them, otherwise they'll be around you and Dan at their own risk 

[JohnTheVoyeur]

Manassas

Avatar seems appropriate 

Sorry 

Had to give you a Woo just for saying that! lol

[Pornhubby]

I hope y’all don’t mind me posting this, but I just need to emote openly.

I have told you all about my estranged wife, and all of our problems. So I am basically “staying married to her” solely for the purpose of getting her Medicare to allow her ongoing dialysis treatment.

She is going through a difficult time, and I understand that. But I really can’t provide the emotional support that she needs, because of the tattered nature of our relationship.

In the last year, I have learned that she basically catfished me seven years ago.  And she lied about virtually everything concerning who she was/is. Where she lived, what she did for a living, what her educational background was, her romantic/sexual history, her bi-sexualism, none of it was true. She told me so many lies, I don’t think she even knows the difference between the truth and a lie. I honestly don’t know who I married. And I’m really more pissed at myself that I am at her, because I consider myself a smart guy, and if she had lived in America at the time, I would have hired an investigator to do a full dossier on her. But I didn’t, and it was my absolute huge fucking mistake.

So now she is having these emotional breakdowns, and started texting me at 6:30 AM on Labor Day and continued to send messages throughout the day, calling me every horrible thing imaginable, accusing me of all kinds of things which are not true, expressing suicidal thoughts, and just absolutely keeping me in a state of aggravation and unhappiness. I finally told her I couldn’t take it anymore, “I’m gonna block you, and if you need something on an emergency basis just send me an email.”

So this woman, who is truly a stranger to me now, has been living in my house on my dime for seven years. She’s been nothing but trouble all that time. And now she’s has end stage renal disease, and likely liver failure. I don’t know if she’s going to live another month or another 10 years. But at some point I’m going to have a Russian corpse on my hands And no one to even send her ashes to. She only has one relative that I know of, a cousin in Moscow.

So the moral of the story is, if you go to a club bathroom in the middle of the night, and the lights are not working, check the toilet seat for carrots before you sit down.

End of rant.

[Clitical Thinking]

I hope y’all don’t mind me posting this,

Not at all, and I'm sorry that you have to go through all that 

If you don't mind me asking, how did she ever get to the States in the first place? Were you her green card sponsor when you married her?

[Pornhubby]

If you don't mind me asking, how did she ever get to the States in the first place? Were you her green card sponsor when you married her?

Yes, she could not get her tourist visa renewed, so she came over on a K-1 fiancé visa. We had known each other for over a year at that point. And I had absolutely no idea I was dealing with a sociopath.

[Shiela_M]

That is absolutely horrible. That abuse after doing all that you do for her is heartbreaking. That what toxic people do. They know they doomed to a living hell and all they want is to drag others with them. So sorry its happening to you.

"Prayers" to you love 

[JBRG]

What ruined my day. … No sex in 8 days, and likely the next 8 days.  No more kids joining us on vacation.

Wait until you are my age and are saying "No sex in the last 8 days and hopefully not the next 8 days either." 

That's kinda what I get from Mrs JBRG whose libido went to shit with menopause.

[ObiDongKenobi]

The death of Elizabeth II (technically Elizabeth I to the Scots).  Although she was 96 we fully expected her to make it to 100 and become the longest reigning monarch in history (overtaking Louis XIV of France), especially as her mother was so long lived.  Such a profound sense of the end of an era.

[MintJulie]

Need an extension cord to charge my iPad, it's on 1% and about to d...

[Pornhubby]

I spent the last three days working on a new case involving a multi billion dollar music school. And my client was groomed and raped repeatedly over an 11 month period of time by an instructor. Not once or twice… 100’s of times. She estimates he sodomized her 80 or 90 times. Stockholm Syndrome. I am absolutely sick about the case. On the other hand, it is going to be a multi-million dollar verdict. And this could be the case that lets me retire. So many conflicting emotions. Just absolutely horrible. Very emotionally draining.

[staci]

That many times and the grooming suggests to me there were others as well.

[Pornhubby]

That many times and the grooming suggests to me there were others as well.

I’m an old man, and I haven’t had anal that many times in my entire life. And she had that much anal in 11 months. It’s just hideous. This place did not have adult supervision. It did not have video cameras. It totally ignored all the signs of inappropriate relationships and sexual misconduct. And they paired this predator with my client, who was very innocent and inexperienced and totally groomed to be this man’s sex toy. It’s horrible. I just hope I can fucking find enough insurance coverage to get her what she deserves.

[staci]

Hang the motherfucker.

[msslave]

I've been having quite a bit of leg problems last few months. At first my oncologist nurse thought it was the bone cancer in my hips pressing on the nerves.

Then after a series of MRIs it was discovered I have a herniated disc.  Monday  I had a consultation with the pain clinic. They were going to try doing an epidural...a steroid injection in the spine. Also physical therapy.

Today received a call back. The Doctor had checked with the Cardiology Department. Due to the fact I've been on a blood thinner since I had stents put in last March, they're not willing to do the procedure.  They feel I can't be off the blood thinner for five days as required for the procedure.

All I have to do is wait a year when I can be off the blood thinner. Catch 22, oncologists only gave me another year last June. So looks like I have to accept the leg problems.

[Shiela_M]

So sorry to hear that love 

My thoughts are always with you.  Have you ever tried an inversion bed? They are not the end all be all, but my dad used one when he slipped a disc and he said it worked pretty good.

[staci]

Am confused Bob. If they gave you a year, why are they having you undergo chemo? They have no idea of the support system you have

[msslave]

I can't complain about the treatment I've received. The VA has spent many thousands of dollars on me, knowing the end will be the same. It's all been in an effort to get me a few more months.

Last January I was given six months to a year. In June after Chemo that moved to one year maybe a bit more. There was still a "rogue cancer" in the prostrate. That's being treated with a strong pill. Latest PET scans showed that was having results.
Next week I'll be getting an up date. Maybe I'll pick up another few months.

It's the thought of dealing with the unrelated to cancer problem.
While the initial phone call this morning about not getting the epidural was discouraging, they've offered other alternatives. I'll be getting an oral steroid instead of the injection. Also I have a consult for physical therapy. Plus there's always the drugs. I'm getting a steady supply of Oxycodone and Gabapentin.

So ignore my initial venting. And thank you
U.S. tax payers for helping pay for my VA care, and all the others who have served.

[watcher1]

Bob, I echo what Shiela and staci wrote. You have a great support system here at KB. Doctors are just guessing because every person is different to how a certain problem affects them.

I can remember when the Neurologist at the VA told me, when he couldn't tell me what is causing my leg problems, that they could prescribe drugs that may or may not help, even though they didn't know what is causing the pain and other issues. When I declined the drugs, it was entered in my file that I declined all drugs. Not so. I would take them if they knew what is causing the issue and the drugs they wanted to prescribe have been proven to work.