For me the whole weekend was a mindfuck. I am sharing with you some personal truths that relate to Breaking up with my ex. To be fair, she suffers from borderline personality this order.
I hadn't heard from her in a few Week, then Friday, Saturday and today she bombarded me with texts. There are three I want to share: 1) to illustrate what I am experiencing, 2) to show her imbalance, and 3) advice.
Message 1:
July 3, 10:26
"There's a fucking rape kit with you DNA in it.I won't press charges as I said, but it was a good idea to do the kit for many reasons"
Message 2:
July 3: 15:06
"15:04:30
I want to clarify what I said in anger about the rape kit (which not only used for full-on rape only). Firstly, to rescind the fact that it has your DNA. It was too late to get your DNA off my body, so the social worker asked if I could bring undergarments I was wearing that day, which I did not do yet and don't think I will. So, while all those clothes are collected in a bag, there is no DNA in my kit right now. I said I do not want the police to make a deposition. I said that your DNA was in the kit in anger and I wish to take it back. It is my practice now to take back anything I noticed I have said that is untrue or only half true. The kit is as yet pending the DNA from my underwear, but I am not interested in including it because I don't want a deposition. Even if I did include it, that does not mean the kit even goes to the police. There are many helpful services associated with a kit, which contains more than just physical evidence and has more uses than simply legal. And that is why I did a kit"
Message 3:
July 4th
11:45
"Just one last note to wish you the best health and a solid recovery. I am in fact rooting for you from an extended distance.'
Is there Something wrong with this picture?
I never raped her, or anyone. Our sex was ALWAYS consensual and I was Always conscious of the abuse she suffered as a child, so Always was mindful.
Should I go to the police and say false allégations are being suggested. Anyone ever dealt with this?
I can't get rid of her and she is ruining my mind, and potentially my life.
I am opening up to you all. Please be gentle.