What RUINED your day today?

[psiberzerker]

Psi, Watcher can tell you about the nerves and the difficulty of diagnosing.

Or, we can discuss it like peers.  I could tell you about My nerves, just like I do my Pain Management Specialist, but I won't.  (Fibromialgia, and Schizotypal Personality Disorder.  The former was hard to diagnose/differentiate from my kinesthetic hallucinations/body schema illusions.)

Or, we can argue again.  Doesn't seem to be up to me, anyway.

[Katiebee]

You’re wrong, I’m right. Get over it.

That should resolve the argument.

[_priapism]

I could tell you about My nerves, just like I do my Pain Management Specialist, but I won't.  (Fibromialgia, and Schizotypal Personality Disorder.  The former was hard to diagnose/differentiate from my kinesthetic hallucinations/body schema illusions.)

This doesn’t provide “insight,” but it does assist with compassion when you go off the rails, and a reminder to not respond in kind.  Thank you.

[staci]

lol, I think the trolley is still at the station, I wasn't argueing. One has to take care of ones shema.

[psiberzerker]

I wasn't argueing.

Then we agree not to disagree.

This doesn’t provide “insight,” but it does assist with compassion when you go off the rails, and a reminder to not respond in kind.  Thank you.

It wasn't intended to Incite, either.  Thanks for telling me you weren't going to respond?  I guess.

[psiberzerker]

I forgot my place, or thought for a moment that I actually had one here.  So, I'll go to AU stories, where at least I know how to fit in.

I'm so glad you people are so willing to give pedophiles the benefit of the doubt.

[MissBarbara]

I forgot my place, or thought for a moment that I actually had one here.  So, I'll go to AU stories, where at least I know how to fit in.

I'm so glad you people are so willing to give pedophiles the benefit of the doubt.

Oh, for fuck's sake!

The fact that one person at one time disagreed with you about one thing doesn't mean that "you don't have a place here" or that "you aren't wanted here."

[psiberzerker]

The fact that one person at one time...

It's not 1 person, at one time, and you know it.  It's not you, it's not just you, that was just the last straw this morning.  You're not even the worst, and that's part of what made it sting so bad, because it was "Not you too."

I'm sick of it.  It sucks.  You know it sucks, just like you knew you're trolling when you did it.  So, thanks for ruining my day.  Next time, I'm sure it will be someone else, but I've basically given up, and gone back to writing daddy-daughter stories.  Since that's all anyone wants to hear form me, if even that.

Thank you for missing the fucking point.  Can you say honestly that I'm not trolled, constantly, anywhere I go besides Sex Stories?  I don't need you getting in line to join everyone else.  You've won, I know my place.  I just need some time, if that's not too much to ask.

[Katiebee]

Psi, you need to stop being such a drama freak. Especially about a single incident. Take a deep breath and carry on.

The truth is, you seem to miss the point that many make in discussions and you fixate on minor points. You also assume a great deal of things which causes many people confusion in the discussions.

[psiberzerker]

The truth is, you seem to miss the point that many make in discussions and you fixate on minor points.

So?  Why is that a problem, exactly?  How is taking a minor point, and extrapolating on that, often after the thread itself has strayed off the initial point, wrong?

For example, when we were talking about how nudism harms, or doesn't harm children, it naturally strayed away to fat Germans, and Polynesians on beaches.  Was that "Missing the point?"  Because I got trolled for "Missing the point," because I said I actually like "Fat" polynesians.  Boo hoo, psiberzerker is missing the point again.

All right then, why am I the only one that seems to have different rules for staying on topic, sticking to the point, and never diverging from it, nor going off on a tangent from a secondary point?  Because I can't do that, and you know what?  Nobody else does either.

So, what makes me special?  Why am I singled out for this, and while we're at it, why am I the "Drama freak" for sharing my day in this thread, when it's THE THREAD for sharing what ruined my day?  I brought it here, so that it didn't blow up into a big fight in the Modesty thread where it started, because I got upset.

I guess I'm not supposed to get upset when that's The Point of trolling me in the first place.  My point, that you're missing here is that I'm sick of getting Trolled, wherever I go.  I'm sick of people getting Woos for trolling me.  Maybe there wouldn't be so much "Drama" associated with me, if we could just discuss something like adults, even after I enter the conversation, without being trolled, because Psiberserker is talking again.  I guess I don't get to make that point, either.

[Katiebee]

First of all, not everything is about you.

Second of all, the only person trolling you, is you.

You and Joan share a trait. You both take a topic and go off on a, to others, bizarre tangent.

[psiberzerker]

Second of all, the only person trolling you, is you.

Oh, bullshit.  That wasn't the question, what harm is going off on even a bizarre tangent?  Give me one good reason why I (And now apparently Joan) have to stick to the point, and nobody else does?  Even after the point has drifted from how body shaming is harmful to body shaming Germans, and Polynesians on a nude beach.  I didn't take it off on that bizarre tangent, and Joan wasn't even there.  So, if it's wrong, then why is it only wrong when I do it?

Why is it okay for you to turn this into how I suck, and ruin threads, when that wasn't My Point?  I don't get to vent, either?  So, why don't we make this clear:  1, I don't get to make points, and 2, i can't complain about it.  Any other rules I need to be aware of?

[Katiebee]

You do most of that on your own psi. You obsess over things.

[psiberzerker]

You obsess over things.

I know.  So do other people.  That wasn't the question, how does moving onto a minor point ruin discussions, and why am I in the wrong for doing it after it's already drifted off topic?

Where were you when Athos was obsessing over a news story, or any of the hundreds of pedophiles were obsessing over Daddy Daughter stories to the exclusion of any others, for years?

I'll add "Obsessing" to the list of things I can't do.  Any more?

[staci]

Yet another terrorist killing. 49 in New Zealand. What a shame that to even practice your faith exposes one to being shot. Tragic and unnecessary. This is why I love animals.

[psiberzerker]

Yeah, that guy turned out to be a pretty rabid white supremacist.  What I found hopeful in that story is the NZ government immediately taking the threat seriously, and starting to talk about ways of preventing it, instead of turning partisan, and making it about Guns.

[MissBarbara]

Why is it okay for you to turn this into how I suck, and ruin threads, when that wasn't My Point?  I don't get to vent, either?  

Perhaps you noticed that I did not respond to the accusations you leveled against me yesterday, all of which were unfair and, frankly wrong.

That's because I recognized and accepted the fact that you were venting. I've no problem with that at all, and I'm aware that, at times, venting is both healthy and necessary. The point I made was to one, specific thing you said. It was not a personal attack nor a personal accusation, and it was addressing what you wrote, and not who you are. I strongly (and, now, vocally) support your right to vent on the board.

On top of that, I could make a good case that I am your biggest supporter on KB. If nothing else, I both nominated and voted for you as KB POY.

So, why don't we make this clear:  1, I don't get to make points, and 2, i can't complain about it.  Any other rules I need to be aware of?

Yes, two more rules:

1) When you post something on this board, you should expect that other members will respond to it. And this is especially true when something posting arguable or controversial.

2) When people respond to something you wrote in a way that is critical or even condemnatory, it isn't necessarily a personal attack, nor -- and here's the main point -- it is not saying that you cannot make points, you cannot vent, or you cannot express your opinion. Saying someone is wrong, or saying you disagree with someone or what they said, is not denying them their right to say it, nor is it curtailing their freedom of speech.

If Mod had deleted or removed something you said solely because he or she didn't like what you said, that would be objectionable, and I'd fully and loudly join you in speaking out against them. That is decidedly not what happened here.




 

[psiberzerker]

I could make a good case that I am your biggest supporter on KB.

i wouldn't go that far, but thanks.  Again, it was more of a Last Straw thing than a personal attack.  I just get that stupid meme response/not response a lot, and eventually, it pisses me off.

Also, it's a bit of a pet peeve when people derail a topic I was having fun discussing seriously, then you turned around, and accused Me of missing the point?  The point wasn't body shaming fat Germans, and Polynesian women to make yourself feel better.  In fact, it kinda went against the point we're trying to make about "Modesty" and body shaming being harmful.

Just some idea of where I'm coming from, to engage your empathy, because I know as well as anyone you're capable of it.

[IdleBoast]

... what harm is going off on even a bizarre tangent?  Give me one good reason why I (And now apparently Joan) have to stick to the point, and nobody else does?

vs

Also, it's a bit of a pet peeve when people derail a topic...

 

[psiberzerker]

Do I have troll me tattooed on my forehead?  After that discretion elipsis, I went on to say ...Then accuse me of missing the point.  In other words, being blamed for what had already being done, as if I was the one derailing the topic.  

 

I'm guessing that's a silent hypocracy eye roll?  

Oh right.  I forgot, the only one trolling me here is myself.