Have you ever said, "No" ?

[Elizabeth]

LOL.....Too Funny.
Sooooo.....You got yourself a "fully trained attack cat".??
 
Love,
Liz

[GEMINIGUY]

Cats aren't as easily trained as dogs. Cats are too smart for that. You can bribe a dog with a treat.
It was hard work training Sphinx to be an attack cat. Had here train to the Rocky IV soundtrack. She loves "Eye Of The Tiger". ;-)

[IdleBoast]

As for the specific act angle, its usually me who is the one who wants to do something different so I really cant think of a time I was ready for sex but not the location/act etc!

I have to ask, Nicole - what was it you wanted to do, but had refused?

Enquiring minds want to know I see, HAHA!  But actually that is not what I was trying to say.  I did not mean I got refused for asking to try some wild things.  What I meant is that since I am usually the one who wants to push the envelope and try new things it is highly unlikely that would be my reason to say NO to sex. If I was to say no it would most likely be because I was tired, not feeling well, etc, not the act itself.

Oh... it's an interesting new direction for the thread though - what kinky requests have you had turned down by a partner?

[NaughtyNicole]

As for the specific act angle, its usually me who is the one who wants to do something different so I really cant think of a time I was ready for sex but not the location/act etc!

I have to ask, Nicole - what was it you wanted to do, but had refused?

Enquiring minds want to know I see, HAHA!  But actually that is not what I was trying to say.  I did not mean I got refused for asking to try some wild things.  What I meant is that since I am usually the one who wants to push the envelope and try new things it is highly unlikely that would be my reason to say NO to sex. If I was to say no it would most likely be because I was tired, not feeling well, etc, not the act itself.

Oh... it's an interesting new direction for the thread though - what kinky requests have you had turned down by a partner?

Sounds like good idea for a new thread!

[JBRG]

Was out partying with a bunch for friends way back in 1980 something. After a few hours of drinking, my best friend was being a jerk to his girlfriend. Being quite drunk by this time, I was - how would one say this --- very relaxed. Anyways, his girlfriend came over to me and asked if I wanted to make love to her. It was so noisy and I was so "relaxed", I had to get her to repeat it 3 times before I understood what she was asking. I politely declined her offer.

A little later, I was dancing to a slow song with her and I explained that there were two reasons that I would not make love to her. First, she was my best friends girlfriend. And secondly (most importantly), I was so drunk I wouldn't be able to get it up anyways.

That was the first time I ever said no. It has happened a few more times over the years but seldom enough that it would be considered a rare occurence.

[BBWlover]

I did once.  I went to a party with my wife and a friend's wife came up to me, kissed me- complete with tongue- and asked me if I'd like to join her upstairs for a quickie.  She was one sexy woman and I was tempted, but discretion took the better of me.  Later on, I found out that she and her hubby were involved in a swingers group with others in the same USAF wing I was in.  Once the scandal broke there were a ton of divorces and forced separations from the Air Force.  Glad I didn't play that night.

Interesting.  I was involved in "the lifestyle" (swinging) for a number of years, and some of the things I'd hear from the "old timers" was that swinging has been around for a very long time, and in particular, at least at one time, it was a popular activity in the Air Force.  I was told that back in the day (as in the 1950s) they called such groups "key clubs".  By this they meant that everyone (at a play party) would put their keys in a hat or the like, the ladies would pull a set of keys at random from the hat and whoever owned the keys is who they would start the evening with.

 

[sheriff andy]

I did once.  I went to a party with my wife and a friend's wife came up to me, kissed me- complete with tongue- and asked me if I'd like to join her upstairs for a quickie.  She was one sexy woman and I was tempted, but discretion took the better of me.  Later on, I found out that she and her hubby were involved in a swingers group with others in the same USAF wing I was in.  Once the scandal broke there were a ton of divorces and forced separations from the Air Force.  Glad I didn't play that night.

Interesting.  I was involved in "the lifestyle" (swinging) for a number of years, and some of the things I'd hear from the "old timers" was that swinging has been around for a very long time, and in particular, at least at one time, it was a popular activity in the Air Force.  I was told that back in the day (as in the 1950s) they called such groups "key clubs".  By this they meant that everyone (at a play party) would put their keys in a hat or the like, the ladies would pull a set of keys at random from the hat and whoever owned the keys is who they would start the evening with.

 

Can't say how they handled key parties in the 1950's Air force, but around here in the mid 70's to early 80's it was somewhat different.

As the couples arrived at the party, keys went into a bowl.  At the end of the evening they ladies pulled a set of keys from the bowl, and that's who they went home with.

You could always tell when such a party was in the plans, because a lot of kids were suddenly spending the night with friends from school.

[Scotty]

An old GF who I lived with at one time told me I wouldn't remember all of the ones I was with but would always remember the ones I said no to. Scotty

[windspeaker54]

I said no when a woman we know as an acquaintance joined us for dinner and drinks at a conference we were attending and came back to our room for a nightcap.  My wife was exhausted and crashed.  Our guest who was quite drunk sat on the end of our bed, started to strip, and wanted to have sex right next to my wife.  I said no because she was impaired, and it would have seriously messed up our relationship as colleagues
 

[BBWlover]

I did once.  I went to a party with my wife and a friend's wife came up to me, kissed me- complete with tongue- and asked me if I'd like to join her upstairs for a quickie.  She was one sexy woman and I was tempted, but discretion took the better of me.  Later on, I found out that she and her hubby were involved in a swingers group with others in the same USAF wing I was in.  Once the scandal broke there were a ton of divorces and forced separations from the Air Force.  Glad I didn't play that night.

I'm surprised.  Did some research on the history of swinging back when I was involved, and learned that the whole "key club" (aka swinger groups) thing was real popular, particularly in the Air Force, going back to the 1950s. 

[BBWlover]

I've said "no" several times to both sexes (on the male side, it literally became harassment and the bouncer's had to step in, being a lesbian is one thing, but when guys refuse to accept that fact, it can become very dangerous). On the female side, I've said "no" more than a few times simply because I didn't want to have sex.
Just because I'm out with friends, doesn't make me available.

Love,
Liz

One thing I've never understood is why in the nine hells would a nominally straight guy pursue a lesbian?  It's not like lesbians are hard to spot usually (dress, demeanor, chemistry, or lack of same really, etc).  Talk about a colossal waste of time.  Of course, I've seen quite a few horny straight women do the same thing with gay men, especially with the Dash Riprock-looking ones.  If they (the women who do this) only knew of the level of revulsion and contempt that these guys look upon these women with, they would not get within a half mile of them.  Of course, I don't doubt that the lesbians feel the same way about the straight guys who sometimes come sniffing around.

As for me, yes, I've said no a few times along the way, mainly because after a while you learn to smell the crazy on some people, and it's just better to not get too close to them, especially to the point of putting my dick in them. 

[Scotty]

I remember a woman telling me that I wouldn't remember every woman I had fucked but would remember every one I said no to and she was right dammit