A young lawyer sent me a message yesterday, “How did you become the perfect dad?” He and his wife are expecting their first, and he sees my frequent social media posts about my kids.
I replied: My father only said “I love you” to me one time in my life. And that was only after I dared him to it. “I don’t think you know how.” So he did, half heartedly. I tell my kids every day I love them. Sometimes the worst examples can be the best teachers. We’ve always been readers, debaters, and have had a lot of fun over family meals. I guess I got lucky. I certainly have two of the best kids in the world.
Of course after sending that reply, I had to send my kids a Snap: Just wanted to remind you both that I love you. And I am very proud to be your father. You are the best sons a man could ask for.
To which my youngest replied: “Is everything okay dad? I love you.”
Just feeling very lucky and blessed over coffee.