Seduction-wise? Slow and steady wins the race. ;-) After humor, empathy is my other strength, so it's all about finding connections and common ground. And from there, paying attention and picking up things that work and don't. Social interaction is a kind of dance for me, and I like figuring out the steps the other person knows.
I'm an incurable flirt, but I save everything past lighthearded banter for the wife. (She does get a kick out of me teasing waitresses, which is really awesome of her.)