I struggle with this permanently; I don't wish to make trouble for myself almost wilfully, yet also resent the fact that a perfectly acceptable aspect of being adult cannot be linked to me as a person because of outmoded prurient attitudes by some. My job and my private life are different, they should have no bearing on each other.
However, I do acquiese, and maintain two profiles in life, going along with the vindictive Daily Mail-isation of life. One day adults will be able to be exactly that without fear of censure by petty minded ingnoramuses.