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Offline Grm

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Reply #100 on: December 25, 2012, 07:47:18 AM
Sometimes this happens, almost any thread can go toxic, in this case it was demondelight who reacted to criticism by extraneously insulting another member. Whenever this happens we move the thread to 1408, why? Because we hate banning people here just because they lose their cool and begin insulting others.
I try and take people at face value here, but sometimes, just like Coach, when I see bullshit I just can't help myself calling it out.



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Reply #101 on: December 25, 2012, 08:00:15 AM
Sometimes this happens, almost any thread can go toxic, in this case it was demondelight who reacted to criticism by extraneously insulting another member. Whenever this happens we move the thread to 1408, why? Because we hate banning people here just because they lose their cool and begin insulting others.
I try and take people at face value here, but sometimes, just like Coach, when I see bullshit I just can't help myself calling it out.


I do apologize for losing my cool, however I do not think what Coach did was right or fair. He could have just as easily sent me a PM like I did to him. I am a nice person, but I have a short fuse. One of many things I am working to correct.



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Reply #102 on: December 25, 2012, 10:42:56 AM
Demondelight, Coacheric is a fair minded person, he is amazingly impartial and rarely gets into fights with members( unlike myself.) He has proved to be an outstanding moderator because he cares about the members and KB. But he is also a member and as such can quite legitimately criticise posts he disagrees with. I do not agree that his criticism of your posts was unfair or incorrect, nor do I subscribe to the " you could have sent me a pm." Personal messages are just that, personal and are not the place for board business. Interaction on topics and threads should be conducted on the board that is why it exists.



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Reply #103 on: December 25, 2012, 10:58:43 AM
Grm, just like CoachEric, i am a fair minded person.  And as you are both entitled to your opinions, so is everyone else.
I disagree with both of you in so much as i believe that CoachEric's intensely vehement personal criticism of Demon was out of order (as I've said above).  I got criticised above for not starting something in room1408, but CoachEric could easily have started one himself.

I don't get into arguments very often either on here or in real life.  2 in the 6 months I've been on here and they've both been in response to something other people have said, the first time against me and this time against someone else.

I can see by the testimonies on his profile that CoachEric is well respected, and his karma scores are incredible.  But just like him and your good self, we all step out of line at times.  In your eyes he didn't, but in other's eyes, he did.

You yourself have called it reacting to "bullshit", that's your opinion.  Obviously i don't agree but there we go.

As for the PM, if you're making an intensely personal criticism of someone, isn't that the very definition of personal?

I've no doubt I'll get shouted at for this, but these are my personal feelings on this situation, and i'm as entitled to say them as any member or moderator is

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Reply #104 on: December 25, 2012, 11:47:47 AM
Tangent, of course you are entitled to your opinion, as is every member of this board, and every member sees things differently.  Eric called it like he saw it.  Personally I don't think he stepped out of line and agree with what was posted.

As for the pm's....it is better to put it on the board, that way it doesn't become a "he said, she said" situation.



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Reply #105 on: December 25, 2012, 12:44:30 PM
Tangent, a very well constructed post, well done. Can I say though your views are naive in the extreme, no one can know who each member is in real life here, we are quiet correctly all incognito. As such we can only 'judge' each other by our posts and when its obvious that tales are being woven, who can tell what is true and what isn't?
Board subjects should be kept on the board and not discussed in private that is a true recipe for discord and unpleasant gossip, if you have anything to say say it out loud.



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Reply #106 on: December 25, 2012, 12:52:50 PM
Ah the beauty of opinions  :D

Guess that's what makes discussions so good.

CoachEric, Grm.....i have no axe to grind with either of you.  I've no doubt we'll agree on many many things, and no doubt disagree too.

However, Grm, i do find your latest comments in my direction condescending and a touch arrogant.  But like you say, you judge by the posts that are put on here.
I'm 42, not 12, this is not the first or only forum i belong to.  i know the barriers of societies such as these, but i also know their worth.  We may be incognito here, but you don't know what happens away from here, and the discussions I've had off line. 
I've made some lovely friends online and met them in real life, even met my wife through an online forum at work.  However relationships are formed, it doesn't make them any less real. 

Having said that, there'll be no grudges carried from me.
I'm happy to set aside our differences on this and move on.

Merry Christmas

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Reply #107 on: December 25, 2012, 01:55:20 PM
...and his karma scores are incredible. 

I wouldn't put too much stock in that around here.  We have people contribute very little or next to nothing on the board, yet they've applauded cover ups, hypocrisy and other general imbecility.   

Please, base your respect on the content of peoples' posts, not their "internet cred."



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Reply #108 on: December 25, 2012, 02:47:14 PM
I don't get any of this.  What happened to just having fun?



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Reply #109 on: December 25, 2012, 02:54:13 PM
Would love to go back to fun Lois.
Truth or dare thread has appeared elsewhere tho

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Reply #110 on: December 25, 2012, 04:53:28 PM
...and his karma scores are incredible. 

I wouldn't put too much stock in that around here.  We have people contribute very little or next to nothing on the board, yet they've applauded cover ups, hypocrisy and other general imbecility.   

Please, base your respect on the content of peoples' posts, not their "internet cred."

We may not agree on much Athos.....But I couldn't agree more with you right at this very moment. Lots of praise for very little effort.

Merry Christmas. I hope your day goes well..

Janus



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Reply #111 on: December 25, 2012, 04:54:05 PM
I don't get any of this.  What happened to just having fun?

Amen, you get a Woo too....  :emot_kiss:

Janus



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Reply #112 on: December 25, 2012, 05:02:23 PM


As for the pm's....it is better to put it on the board, that way it doesn't become a "he said, she said" situation.

You're a hypocrite.

But then again so am I....

As you said in a PM to me. "Janus you are 10 X the Loser I am"  ....  I will admit that....

Merry Christmas



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Reply #113 on: December 25, 2012, 06:05:40 PM


As for the pm's....it is better to put it on the board, that way it doesn't become a "he said, she said" situation.

You're a hypocrite.

But then again so am I....

As you said in a PM to me. "Janus you are 10 X the Loser I am"  ....  I will admit that....

Merry Christmas



Janus, revealing the content of a PERSONAL message on the public board? Do you understand what the word "personal" means?




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Reply #114 on: December 25, 2012, 06:29:38 PM
In the time I have been a member of KB I have been called a sex addict, a cyber slut, been told to admit I am bi, been told to get my thumb out of Grm's ass and think for myself (Charley, that made me LMAO, was because I agreed with your decision about spoilers) and that I am a sad pathetic loser.  I am still here.

Janus, compared to the above that boo was like a soft kiss on my cheek.

Members having issues with a person's posts should be brought up on the board, not a pm.  Members swapping private messages not board related are just that...private.  If you would have read what I responded to you would have known that I was referring to board related pm's.

Bah Humbug.....boo to you Janus for putting something on the board that has nothing to do with this thread.



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Reply #115 on: December 25, 2012, 06:46:59 PM
Where, oh where is Assthos when we need him at insult central...

Maybe the Walmart in Plainfield is open today, needed it's sniffer... Merry Christmas to all, now go fuck someone you love this fine day...  :emot_kiss:

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Reply #116 on: December 25, 2012, 06:54:52 PM
Nothing to berate Obama about today?

At least you prove the saying, "Dumb never takes a day off."
« Last Edit: December 25, 2012, 07:03:27 PM by Athos131 »



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Reply #117 on: December 25, 2012, 11:56:39 PM
In the time I have been a member of KB I have been called a sex addict, a cyber slut, been told to admit I am bi, been told to get my thumb out of Grm's ass and think for myself (Charley, that made me LMAO, was because I agreed with your decision about spoilers) and that I am a sad pathetic loser.  I am still here.



Ah, my dear. None of that is true. The people who know you, know the real you.  :emot_kiss:

Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our minds.


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Reply #118 on: December 26, 2012, 03:17:44 AM
[Janus, revealing the content of a PERSONAL message on the public board? Do you understand what the word "personal" means?
Well said Barbara, woo. Janus you are a complete jerk, boo.



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Reply #119 on: December 26, 2012, 03:29:07 AM
Same goes to Joan and Athos for wasting more board space on their little sulk with each other.

Not that it matters, but it was Joan's decision to start shitting on this thread.