Jed, you might be the only one here who understands the release that total submission provides. When she is finally broken, the sensation is incomparable. For her and for me. When the sub finally finds a dom that will take them through that tunnel, all the way to release, there is nothing like it. I’ve been told there were many others that pulled back, or hesitated. You can’t. It is a disservice.
That’s quite a compliment, thanks. I’ve talked online with many frustrated girls trying to find that man who understands being dominant doesn’t require being abusive. The men they meet either don’t understand their needs, refuse to go there or misinterpret them leading to abuse. So they chatted with me, and they did what they were told. It worked for one basic reason, I was far more interested in giving them what they needed than anything for myself. I’m sort of retired from that.
In my relationships, it’s a rare girl that doesn’t like being tied up once in a while, or for some, all the time. If I just knew back then what I know now. Early in my marriage there was lots of exploration, but then she got sick and lacked interest. Hence my retreat online for a time.
At present my Peruvian is somewhat sexually submissive. I have to be careful though. She’s a bit old fashioned, so the toy box is in the attic. Any overt dominance of the type we’re talking about, at least for the time being, is most likely going to be interpreted as disrespect or worse. The thing is, I don’t need it to be a true Dom/sub thing; I just want her to be as happy as possible. I’m still going to introduce her to handcuffs soon.