Bad Boys: What is the attraction?

[Gina Marie]

A *good* massage is the fastest way to get a woman's attention, and for many of 'em it's nearly as good as vaginal sex.  Hell, I've had NUMEROUS times where a woman truly needed a shower after I was done with her.  You have to *focus* on the woman, her reaction to what you're doing and what it feels like both at the surface and down deep.

A 'back rub' is perfectly innocent, staying on the 'public' parts of the body, yet a GOOD massage will have them purring in amazingly short order; it's the next best thing to having your hands in their panties. 

Besides that, a 'back rub' will get rid of over 80% of headaches without drugs, and it feels *wonderful* when it's done correctly.

Trust your Uncle RopeFiend here: learn to give a great massage and you'll be beating the women off with sticks.

This is 100% true!

*Side Note* This works across the board - Woman/Woman - Man/Woman - Man/Man.

I have given several "friendly back rubs" to straight women, and in the first five to ten minutes, I could totally smell their arousal, which in turn, often led to their "experimental" phase of their sexuality! He he he... This is best advice I have seen posted in quite a while! If you know where the "start buttons" are, you can fire up just about any "machine".

Another WOO for my darling RF!

[Bexy]

All I can add is CORRECTAMUNDO!

My husband was very surprised the first time after giving me a deep back rub, that I actually moan louder when being massaged than during sex. LOL

[RopeFiend]

My only caveat/warning on massage: be careful if you're straddling her with a deep lower-back massage.  I put significant force on one woman at her lower back with the heels of my hands, and continued it for about 20 minutes.  I was putting a lot of weight & pressure into it at her request.  When I finished she couldn't move her legs, and it scared both of us.  Eventually the muscle control came back, but we were both pretty freaked out about it.  

You can't press as hard with your fingers and thumbs as you can with the heel of the hand.  Anything you can do with fingers and thumbs is safe, and I've done it thousands of times.  I'm much more cautious with the heel though.

Yep, as Gia noted, it's utterly cross-sex: we ALL love a good massage.  That's why I've avoided doing guys (except once, special case for medical purposes).

edit: Have I taken advantage of the arousal caused by massage?  You're damned right I have! 

[KitKat]

Interesting topic. Bump.