Hi, welcome to the forum.
Firstly, this is a discussion group not a hookup site. If you're looking to score, it's not happening here. If you would like to talk about all sorts of worldly things you've come to the right place.
Secondly, this room (1408) is not for general discussion. It is reserved for people to yell at each other or talk about topics that tend to become very heated. Politics and religion are two of the big ones. All other discussions should take place in the appropriate categories.
Third, I recommend introducing yourself in the "Hello" board. People are more apt to pick up on your topics if you take the time to tell everyone who you are rather than open with, "Who wants to fuck?"
Lastly, there are some great sticky threads that give you good insight on the rules and the general lay of the land. Please read up on those, they are a great help.