Bi courious

[MintJulie]

I didn't know Janus other than reviewing some of the posts, but still appreciate the helpful discussion he gave.

Thank you Pornhubby for your response. It appears a lot of things have changed here since I last visited. Just getting my feet wet looking around again.

Welcome back, grandpaKurious. 7 years.  It's been a while. From before I arrived.

[shadesofgry]

Shit married have been in the swingers lifestyle for many years. Found myself attracted to the over all sex. In no way do I find the male figure attractive, I kissed a guy once in these situations I'm about to get into. I found kissing another male was utterly grotesque. I do very much enjoy oral. Since taking the plung with my wife on her knees next to me, I have found my 2 absolute favorite sexual activities. Giving a double BJ with the wife, and being in a 69 position while another male proceeds to have sex with my wife or the other female involved. We are pretty much exclusive to couple swaps.

For me it took about a day to process the stereotype of "am I gay/bi"? The answer is no! Im a straight male and I enjoy pleasure from both genders, but find zero attraction to the male body figures. I'm happily married in "straight" marriage, and if the stars align when we swing we all get to play together. VERY few men in the Swingers Lifestyle are ok with bi sex BTW.

[LucasShade]

I'm bi-curious. However, it seems most guys who are want to suck cock. I would rather be fucked in the ass.

[phil97405]

I could be wrong, but it always seemed to me that women tended to more often be bi-curious than men.

I assumed that this is due to the diff. in sex itself.  For a female to even have intercourse she must be willing to accept an invasion of herself, and thus, must be more open and accepting.

Just my musing, they tend to be odd.

I totally agree with Miss Barbara.  ...And Karl2, I'd be happy to chat with you about this topic.  I'm very bi/solosexual.

I don't think that's odd at all, and I think you have your finger on something.

Speaking from no authority or experience, do you think the difference might lie in the fact that homosexuality is so culturally proscribed among men -- you know, the whole "gay thing," being a "real man," etc. -- that men might tend much less to express their bi-sexuality to others? In other words, they might feel it, but they'd never dare describe those feelings to other men?

I'll admit I'm on rather shaky ground here, but I think women tend to give more intrinsic meaning to the physical aspects of sex than men do. For example, I read in another thread here a few minutes ago someone describing how they masturbated to completion seven times in the space of a few hours. I can't even begin to fathom that. I don't condemn it, I just don't understand it.