What would you really do??

[HizzSister]

I'm not into pain, unless I'm "doing myself" in which case I sometimes (?) like to play with clothes pins on my nipples.  But I get to put them on and decide when they come off.  With a guy or gal, I prefer more of a romantic screwing.

OK ~ This isn't really pain, but sometimes, with a guy or girl, I'll very, very slowly and ever so lightly rub massage oil on a dick or clit until they're screaming to cum....and then they just EXPLODE in an orgasm.

[lustfulljoanne]

HizzSister..... pick me pick me pick me... sounds like youd have me screaming to cum in no time...

[watcher1]

OK ~ This isn't really pain, but sometimes, with a guy or girl, I'll very, very slowly and ever so lightly rub massage oil on a dick or clit until they're screaming to cum....and then they just EXPLODE in an orgasm.

I have had that done, rubbing massage oil on the tip and shaft, and all I have to say is, What a feeling!!   Joanne, it would be close on who would cum first.

[MistressWitch]

Peter & Ghost,

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

You each got a +1 for your replies.

Everyone else-
I suppose if you aren't "into" pain you just don't understand the pure pleasure of it and the way the body responds with pure adrenaline. It's like a drug to me and more pain brings more pleasure.

I could go into all kinds of BS psychological history as to why I probably enjoy pain, crave pain, need pain- but I won't bore you with it. I just know that tender, loving, caresses just don't do a thing for me. I've been touched so much over the course of my life that gentile touches just don't register at all. I just don't feel them.

It's not about being mean. It's not about violence. It's all about trust, intense physical feelings, adrenaline, and giving your partner what they need, want, & desire.

And Fiend-
I'm a verb, not an adjective... REAL play gets me hot.  Cyber-sex / roleplay or phone sex leaves me high, dry and frustrated. Who said anything about cyber or roleplay? I asked a question. I absolutely wasn't asking for YOU or anyone else to cyber with me.

I also realize one of the fundamental differences between women and men: men are heavily visual / tactile oriented, and with women that's only half of it, the MENTAL is the other half.  The ladies here may be able to get off on a story, but I'd wager that most guys can't... it ain't in our make-up, generally.  There's always exceptions, but I'm not one of 'em. And again- who was talking about stories? Did you NOT fully read & comprehend the question I asked? I specifically asked "what would you do if you had a woman that loves pain in your midst that you could do anything with that you wanted. Where in there does it say cyber, role play, story?

I'm 50, and yeah, age makes a significant difference to me.  I'm looking for a friend, partner, lover, confidante, companion, 'old lady', buddy, consort AND play-toy, somewhere within +/- 8 to 10 years, I'm not hunting a 'play partner'.  Odds are, I'm old enough to be your daddy... and A FEW of the ladies that have hit me up I could nearly be their grandfather!!  While some of the gals here might get off on that situation, I don't: the whole daughter/daddy thing trips ALL sorts of alarm bells inside me. Wow- is EVERYTHING always about you? Once again, the general OP wasn't directed at some hidden desire to be with you, cyber with you, role play with you, do anything at all with you for that matter. The reality is that for you to be my father you would have to have fucked my mother when you were 9 and I seriously doubt that could have happened. I happen to know for a fact that my father died several years ago, before I had the chance to meet him and he was 54 when he died of brain cancer. My dad is still alive and is 88. I never had any sexual feelings towards them- still don't. Age play gets too close to incest and sex with kids and those are two areas of sexual exploration that I am strongly against. My best advice to you would be to come to a quick realization that my world doesn't focus on you. I only have eyes, heart, body and soul for one man- and you aren't him.

MW

[MedievalDom]

Here in lies the conundrum in a D/s relationship both parties need to be willing to step out of their comfort zone.   I am a type A, Dominant but frankly there are things I am uncomfortable with and some things I am just not willing to do.  Scat, pedo, bloodletting are a few that I will not do or even role play the second.  As another example I am uncomfortable with play rape how ever if I knew my play partner really well and that is what SHE wanted to play I could go there.
As for me, well l like a verity of things that are over the boundaries, but the woman has to be at least a semi willing partner.  My two favorites being bestiality and brother sister incest.  The second is imposable, as I only have half sisters I have not spoken to in 31 years

any one want to be my sister and play with the dogs?

[stefanwolf]

Ok, Im definitely not into extreme painpleasure.  I have tried to be the aggressor in sexual play and have failed miserably.
That said.  there is a dark side to everyones persona.  Something I would never do because the outcome couldnot be guaranteed safe-
forcible rape with objects, repeated degradment, the woman tied, staked out in the woods, the woman screaming and no help around.  My first encounter with dirty stories of anykind was in the old Real Detective or Police Stories.  They were sensational accounts and in those days very non-mainstream.  Unfortuantely the advent of reality news has even taken away from the eroticsm and forbidden nature of those accounts. 

Again I would never do anything of this sort but the fantasy is locked away somewhere in my erotic archives,
I hope this comment is taken in the spirit it was offered, an honest answer to a question.  If you would like a more detailed account I might be able to put it down into words for private conversation, I dont know.

ok so I said I would never do this, and I guess I left out the specifics of what type of degradement: pissing on her, leaving her lie in her filth and decaying forest floor, whipping her with the switches cut from the trees in the woods and braided wild rose.  finally after her total submittment, a chance to wash in a freezing cold stream, and fucked while tied with  rose-intwined ropes.
I hope that helps explain my deepest darkest fantasies

[one1000kinks]

Hmmm, interesting question and one i've not really considered before but since you ask...
First it would be a woman i've kidnapped off the street (black van style, skidding tires, side door flying open and just whisking her off in broad daylight).

Then it would be a safe house somewhere that I can keep her for as long as I want. The first few days would be some sleep deprevation torture and at least a half a dozen video monitors contantly piping in different flavors of porn so i could watch her remotely and see what kinds of things she zero'd in on when she thought no one was looking. Even though she would be afraid, repelled, and disoriented eventually she would respond. every few hours i'd come in the room, sneak up behind her and blindfold her so she didn't know who or what to expect then come around to the side of the bed she was strapped in and roughly massage her tits, slap and finger her hole, all while she cried and begged for me to stop.
after a day or two the sensory overload would have her reaching orgasm against her will, her body betraying her. After that if she did not cum immediately after my rubbing of her pussy and fingering of her asshole she would receive increasingly harsh slaps to her breasts or choking just before the point of passing out maybe even flipping and re-tying her on her belly so I could whip her from her shoulders to her calves for not cumming on command.
maybe a day or two later complete isolation, just darkness, no binds, just microphones so I can listen to her breathing for a day maybe three. Then the porn assault resumes but she is not bound, just locked in the room and an assortment of vibrators, dildo's, some shaped like dog cocks for her to choose from.
The next day back to being tied down so she cannot masturbate if she wanted to, no telling that she would? just that she can't. More porn coming at her from all sides and a continuous soundtrack of women moaning, sighing, cumming and breathing matched to a subtle club like bass line beat. after a day or so of this treatment I will again return to her quarters and blindfold her as always then eat her pussy until she cums, pinch her nipples and eat her pussy and ass until she cums, when she's worn out, leave her again.
after a few weeks of watching the news about her abduction and gauging how her programming is going I finally fuck her and clean her up then return her to the precise spot i've abducted her from, dressed exactly as she was when I took her.

After that I just monitor the spot I originally took her from and if she returns I abduct her again and re-double my efforts.

[staci]

Then one day she arrives, unbeknowing to you, concealing a handgun along with the memory of your torture. When you least expect it, she renders you useless and unable to practice your fantasy on another female.

[stefanwolf]

ouch staci!  like I said I would never consider going to that dark side, safer for me to lovingly take a woman, hmmm maybe one from Texas?  jk but I'm here for you if you ever want a hetro tryst. love wolfie

[watcher1]

ouch staci!  like I said I would never consider going to that dark side, safer for me to lovingly take a woman, hmmm maybe one from Texas?  jk but I'm here for you if you ever want a hetro tryst. love wolfie

watcher checking out his trusty camera just in case staci says yes   Beware, Wolfman. I think ranchers down in Texas shoot wolves - kind of lump them together with Democrats and northerners.
 

[MedievalDom]

Then one day she arrives, unbeknowing to you, concealing a handgun along with the memory of your torture. When you least expect it, she renders you useless and unable to practice your fantasy on another female.

well said Staci
plus one for you

[sneakyluvr]

I'm a protector, not a sadist. I wouldn't do any of that stuff to you if you paid me.

[IdleBoast]

I like the idea of causing pain to a woman that asks me to, slapping a girl across the face, flogging her pussy, but it would definitely have to be a trusting,  sexual context. I don't get pain for pain's sake, but I do get how it modifies arousal.

I had a brief online interaction with a girl, writing stories for her, but she just wanted them to be about her getting beaten up, split lips, gut punches, real damage but no sexual side at all. Left me cold.

However, if you want pain, maybe this video is for you.  It's not for me.

http://www.heavy-r.com/video/165019/Tit_Trampling/

[Fred]

My nature has always been to avoid giving pain to others either physically or mentally, so that would be out.

I would slowly undress her, kissing her body as I did that. I would suck on her boobs and  let my tongue play on her nipples.  I would then keep on kissing here till I got to her pussy and then cover it with kisses and put my tongue right inside her. I would continue kissing her right down to her toes.

The I would open up her legs and put my cock in her and fuck her, making sure we came together. Then I would lay down beside her and kiss and cuddle her.

Now that to me is what women were made for, not for me to inflict pain on them.

[Scotty]

like someone said before > walk thru a dark parking lot and see what they do.. since you like pain, you'll have a ball!