Just asking

[Hotrod216]

So I'm 75 and my wife  is 76. She's done with sex. Period. I'm not. Sure I can beat off for temporary relief but I really need a woman to blow me. I've had lots of local sex workers on Telegram volunteer to do that for a fee. Is that ok? I kinda see it as cheating but on the other hand I'm not getting serviced.  ?

[Vela Nanashi]

You could ask your wife what she thinks If she is alright with it, then nobody else matters.

[Hotrod216]

I already know the answer to that question and it is a resounding NO. For sure. Total prude.

[Vela Nanashi]

Then it is rough, since you do have your vows and all that, the contract with your wife, so if she is not willing to let you find enjoyment from other people, then that means you have to break or bend the contract, and you will have to decide if that is alright with you, and also think about if she found out, what would she feel about that?

Anyway I am not going to judge you, I believe you have to make up your own mind on if that is okay for you, with you, or if you do believe in a god like it seems like you do, I don't, but I guess you are supposed to be able to pray and stuff, and some versions of religion give forgiveness for anything if you ask for it after, some even sell forgiveness for future sins, crazy stuff to me that. To me though the only persons that matter is myself and whomever I have promised something, nobody else matters, that is why I very rarely promise anyone anything.

[Pornhubby]

I don’t have anything helpful to say. My wife and I are pretty open and honest with each other about things. She knows about my participation in a lot of things. And I would certainly give her similar latitudes. But I think everyone would agree that paying a whore for a blow job is cheating, unless your wife wanted to give you permission. Who knows, it may not be as great as you think it would be. You always need to be careful what you ask for. Sometimes that forbidden fantasy loses its sheen, once you are doing it.

[staci]

There is one other alternative hotrod. It would relieve your build up and would not necessarily be cheating. May still be a sin in the eyes of most clergy and of course all Republicans - Find a local gloryhole.

[Dudester]

Check your DM's.

[Fenderwise]

I was in a sexless marriage for years.  She had a lot of hang-ups from the beginning including a lot of Catholic guilt.  I was feeling the same way.  This was back in Craig's list time.  I figured I would hook up with a guy because that wouldn't be cheating.  I did it twice on some business trips.  The first time was fun, the second time naw.  I enjoy watching Bi-Gay porn sometimes but definitely in real life wasn't for me.  I ended up having an affair with a woman in the same situation.  I didn't feel nearly as guilty as I thought I would.   And as far as the vows, my reasoning was if you're not having sex with your spouse you've broken your vows.