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Offline kittykass

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on: April 04, 2015, 03:18:42 PM
My ex and I divorced in 2012. We haven't spoken since then, much to his disappointment. I just recently unblocked him from Facebook, and got this lovely message this morning.

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"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #1 on: April 04, 2015, 04:18:08 PM
As gratifying as those may be, silence is perhaps a better response.

There are three kinds of people in the world. Those who can count, and those who can't.

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Reply #2 on: April 04, 2015, 04:19:24 PM
Quote from: Katiebee on April 04, 2015, 04:18:08 PM
As gratifying as those may be, silence is perhaps a better response.

Very true. And the route I'll take. He's an ex for a reason, as the saying goes.

"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #3 on: April 04, 2015, 07:53:06 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 04, 2015, 06:48:42 PM
3:15 a.m.?  Drunk, or stoned, or both.

Knowing him? Both.

"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #4 on: April 04, 2015, 08:19:24 PM
I assume this was not a clean break.

Ignoring him is best, as if you're saying "you're not worth the trouble".


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Reply #5 on: April 04, 2015, 08:42:07 PM
I've ignored multiple times, changed emails, usernames, etc. I figured two year's time was enough to unblock. It wasn't a "nasty" divorce, persay (he didn't even have the balls to show up), just a lot of mental damage from a D/s relationship.

Lesson learned.

"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #6 on: April 04, 2015, 09:08:01 PM
best I can say is continue to ignore him. Probably ought to put a block back on him so you won't be subjected to this again from him.


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Reply #7 on: April 06, 2015, 03:17:02 PM
Quote from: kittykass on April 04, 2015, 07:53:06 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 04, 2015, 06:48:42 PM
3:15 a.m.?  Drunk, or stoned, or both.

Knowing him? Both.

If he hasn't sobered/cleaned up, ignore him.  Two years sober/clean, give him a listen.

I am like Charlie the Tuna.  I don't want women with good taste, I want women who taste good.

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Reply #8 on: April 06, 2015, 04:53:31 PM
Quote from: redhatlover on April 06, 2015, 03:17:02 PM
Quote from: kittykass on April 04, 2015, 07:53:06 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 04, 2015, 06:48:42 PM
3:15 a.m.?  Drunk, or stoned, or both.

Knowing him? Both.

If he hasn't sobered/cleaned up, ignore him.  Two years sober/clean, give him a listen.

We live in different towns, but having some of the same acquaintances, I know he's still using. Or, at least, all the inclinations are present.

"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #9 on: April 06, 2015, 05:09:40 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 06, 2015, 05:00:06 PM
The 3:15 a.m. bad rhymes indications?   :emot_laughing:

Bahaha

He used to be a very talented writer. That was just...awful.

"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #10 on: April 06, 2015, 05:24:42 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 06, 2015, 05:20:09 PM
I sent my ex flowers today.  Trying hard to recreate what has yet to be created.

I wish you the best. People are capable of change.

"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #11 on: April 06, 2015, 07:02:02 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 06, 2015, 06:33:03 PM
Quote from: kittykass on April 06, 2015, 05:24:42 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 06, 2015, 05:20:09 PM
I sent my ex flowers today.  Trying hard to recreate what has yet to be created.

I wish you the best. People are capable of change.

Quote from: coacheric on April 06, 2015, 05:31:10 PM
Quote from: kittykass on April 06, 2015, 05:24:42 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 06, 2015, 05:20:09 PM
I sent my ex flowers today.  Trying hard to recreate what has yet to be created.

I wish you the best. People are capable of change.

Don't worry about toe, in three days he will be posting screen shots of his drunk 3:30am text he sent  :-*

Folks here know the cycle.  We've been torturing each other for 16 years.  If we could change, we would have done it a decade ago.

Ah, so you've found the salt to your tequila, so to speak?  ;)

"But captain, to obey - just like that - for obedience's sake... without questioning... That's something only people like you do."

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Reply #12 on: April 06, 2015, 07:08:17 PM
Quote from: kittykass on April 06, 2015, 05:24:42 PM
Quote from: toeinh2o on April 06, 2015, 05:20:09 PM
I sent my ex flowers today.  Trying hard to recreate what has yet to be created.

I wish you the best. People are capable of change.

Capable, yes.  If they actually want to, highly doubtful.

Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our minds.

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Reply #13 on: May 16, 2015, 03:34:52 PM
One of the last exes just got married (I'm soo happy) so I won't hear from her soon ! ;D


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