I can talk until i'm blue in the face, but here's what it is: If you can't see this from the male perspective you won't get what i'm trying to say.
Alternately, being a male i'll have a problem fully understanding the female perspective.
You have to understand i'm seeking knowledge here. As a male who would never rape a woman i'm hurt by a lot of things said against males. I'm also hurt that you misunderstand my words. I'm not doing any woman-hating or playing any blame games and saying women are guilty, i'm saying [try to] look at it from both sides, the male perspective and the female perspective. Maybe then you'll understand why i'm feeling a little stung here.
This was my last post on this subject. I'm out of it from here on in.
GG, I've been trying very hard to explain things calmly. I believe you when you say, "I'm seeking knowledge here," and that is the spirit with which I've read your posts.
I do not, nor have I ever, believed that you would even consider raping a woman, nor doing anything improper with a woman. Nor do I think you're a "woman hater."
And if you think I'm attacking you, read my response to snowm above. THAT'S me attacking someone.
My question above was an honest one -- my attempt at "seeking knowledge here." And you didn't answer it. So I'll ask again: What, in your opinion, are a woman's responsibilities here? You mentioned "the male perspective" several times. What is the male perspective? I'm clearly missing your point. I would truly appreciate if you would explain it to me.